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Kala; you need to let go. I can tell just by reading this thread that mentally you are not prepared for a relationship. It brings back old memories of my 12-year old classmates with partners thinking they'd found "the one", only to dump them the next day, go out with someone else and think the exact same thing.

Aww dont say that! I mean i guess i sound a little crazy in this thread... and maybe i am a little crazy lol but im 15 not 12, i think im more mature than that!! Im putting myself thru alot of emotions but trust me if we get together i would calm down for sure!!

Anyways 2 really good things happened today! I was drawing something in class and he saw it. He asked me about it... it was this totally random drawing but he thought it was really cool! I was like wow this is too good lol. Now i wanna make something for him and give it to him! Nothing crazy but yeah... im making a drawing for him tonight!

Then later he invited me to his house on saturday! Yeah his house!!! Also its a saturday so we could spend a lot of time together!! When he asked me i wanted to just hug him lol but of course i didnt.

I asked my parents, they said yes but they wanted to know if his parents would be home... lol i guess thats fair!

Age does not mean maturity. Let it go, Kala. You aren't ready for a relationship. Look at yourself. You're obsessing over him commenting on your drawing. On the inviting over thing, thats friends me thinks. Or, he just wants to get into your pants. Just think before you act. Its easy to get burned in a relationship when you know so little about the person.

But, if you decide to take the optimistic route, good luck.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

All I can say is be cautious. Good luck, but remember he has a girlfriend and you'll probably stay in the friendzone.

Lol i guess im an optimist. I know you guys are looking out for me but i dont think anyone could talk me down... yes theres a risk it could not turn out good but i know he is worth it!!!

And with him inviting me over yeah we are totally just friends right now and yeah its frustrating that he has a gf but thats how it is. Im assuming he still just sees me as a friend, lol im not that optimistic! Either way its not really my personality to make the first move. Plus like i said it would be to early anyway cuz we are still getting to know eachother as friends. Im more than happy to be his friend!!

Maybe it is dumb to be excited about this lol but yes i gave him the drawing in class and his reaction was awesome! He said thank you and he couldnt stop smiling!! It was this cute little drawing of a turtle lol, and i colored it with markers. Nothing crazy but he seemed surprised and he liked it!!

Yesterday was pretty much the best day ever!!! When he picked me up i felt so proud, like... hes picking me up!! Ok that sounds dumb but you know what i mean lol. The best part was being with him in his car cuz your so close! I dont think he even noticed lol but i was so happy to be there right next to him!

We got to his house and i met his parents, they were super nice!! His mom gave me some lemonade and they were like really welcoming, im pretty sure they liked me and i liked them too. So thats definitely good!!

He kinda showed me around his house which was cool and we went downstairs and he has these weights in the basement, its like a weight lifting set or whatever. When i saw it i asked him about it and asked if he could show me how it worked, and he did!! He lifted some weights for me, it was really hot lol.

We went in his room and i saw his guitar, i was like omg thats right you have to play it for me!! He played a few songs and hes really really good!!! He said hes been playing for like 3 years. Then he wanted me to sing like i promised! At first i was like giggling and smiling so much i couldnt sing, it was embarassing, he thought it was funny lol. Ok so i finally sang something, he liked it and he said i was very good!!

Then we just hanged out and talked for a really long time, i think thats the longest ive ever just talked with him, i was in heaven lol. Later his mom asked him if he could pick up something from the store, i went with him so that was cool, lol we kinda went shopping together!!

I am so happy right now... cuz this is what its like to be with him even when were just friends, and its the best thing in the world... i want to do that every day!! Now im gonna be kinda sad every day that i cant lol. Maybe just 1 day a week like that and i would be so happy. Seriously we were together for like 9 hours!!!

This was entertaining at first. I don't know what to make of it now.

Is it sad? Or annoying? Or both? Lol...

no offence ..... but your a bit scary ..... -_-

Ok i can get a little emotional lol but i mostly keep that stuff inside in real life. I havent scared him away yet but i guess well see lol.

He came to my house tonight... he could only stay for a couple hours but i was still super happy! Soon after he got here my parents were like "hey, why dont we play bananagrams?" They are really random sometimes lol. I wanted to say "omg you guys what are you doing, i wanted him all to myself" lol. We didnt have like a plan or anything but i still thought i would be alone with him!! So Andy was like "im in" cuz apparently he likes bananagrams lol. And yeah he was really good at it. He helped me whenever i got stuck on something, it was so sweet!! We had a lot more fun than i thought we would, and most of it was him and my parents like competing against each other and laughing and stuff. Andy and my mom were the best at it. It was actually pretty cool!

We got to chat by ourselves a little but not enough lol. Im gonig to his house on wed so i hope we get more 1 on 1 time!!!