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I know, right? I pissed myself when I saw it pop up again.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Im back and the vacation was great!! Not life changing lol but im really really happy i went. First of all being with his family for that long was really interesting, in a good way, since were normally at my house most all the time i didnt know his parents that well, i mean i knew them but not good enough. Also Phoenix is awesome! We did alot of hiking and walking around and tourist stuff and we rented bikes on one day, it was so much fun and its a really strange place, i nevr went to that part of the country before. It was weird to see Christmas decorations on cactuses in some peoples yards lol, it looks like its supposed to be funny but i assume its not. We didnt get to see the grand canyon, they said it was too far to drive so i was bummed about that but i got over it cuz of all the other stuff we did. My favorite thing was climbing these foot hills, its really cool its basically a small mountain and easy to climb. Its not even climbing, its hiking basically, its not even that steep. You can do it in like a half hour, but when you get to the top of it you can see literally the whole city! Its crazy. Also it wasnt as hot as i expected like not even close, but its winter so there you go lol. Sorry i think this could get long so i wont go thru everything.

I am closer to his parents now for sure, by the end we were kinda like one big family lol. When you spend that much time together that happens i guess but we totally bonded and i know them alot better now, it feels like i should have before but better late than never lol. They were so nice about everything and they made me feel like part of the family and i tried to show how thankful i was and everything so yeah it was really cool! So for the hotel they got Andy his own room and i stayed with his sister. Which was actually really cool, since im close with her it was like getting to hang out with a friend that you havent seen alot.

Basically at night the 3 of us would hang out, it was so great and when else do we get to do that!? Almost never lol. We hung out in our room then Andy would go to bed and i would talk with his sister. It was so awesome, we got to know eachother much better cuz theres only so much you can tlk about online. We talked about all kinds of stuff, she wanted to know more about our relationship but i also wanted to know more of what she thought form her perspective! She said whenever she talks to Andy im the first thing he talks about and she was like "hes really proud of the relationship you guys have".. i was like aww thats so cool! I asked her what she really thought about us, maybe i just wanted to hear compliments lol, but she said Andy has never been this happy before, and how she hopes we stay together and she supports us and everything, yeah it was emotional lol. We didnt talk about that all the time but we had some awesome conversations! It got interesting lol, she was asking me if we had sex yet and i admitted it. I told her i basically havent told anyone and she said maybe its not as secret as i think and she assumed we did, just from the way we are with eachother (still not sure what that means!!) but i still asked her not to tell. The next night she started talking about sex and i went with it, iwas like omg here we go again lol so yeah we had some interesting talks, youd have to know her but shes really open about this stuff, some of it was maybe TMI lol but it was still cool. Im not complaining cuz it was great to talk to someone older who i totally trust and everything.

So other than that and the 3 of us hanging out, sometimes if we wanted to stay up later me and Andy would go to the pool or the hot tub, THAT was great lol. Its not like ive never been in a pool but the 2 of us never went swimming together before, it was awesome!! We should start making a list of stuff we want to do together lol but yeah this was way up there for me. A couple times we all went in the hot tub which was nice, cuddling in the hot tub is the best thing ever lol. Its too bad all kinds of random people were crowding in the hot tub most of the time so there were only a couple chances but thats ok since i loved the pool, and mostly it was the 2 of us in the pool since his sister and parents were like always too tired for that. He is a good swimmer, he showed me how he can dive and stuff but mostly we were just playing in the pool, splashing fights and stuff like that, yeah dont ask lol. One of the times he started tickling me, i was trying to escape but he grabbed me from behind and wouldnt let go which made me laugh harder, lol it was fun. People were kinda staring at us but we were basically acting like 10 year olds so yeah i dont blame them lol.

We were kinda waiting for people to leave but there was like always someone around in the hot tub or something, he had the idea to hide like on the side so our heads were just above the water so we could make out in the pool lol and that worked. Other than that we had like nooo privacy the whole time, it was furstrating, i know i sound really spoiled lol but we kept thinking, the whole family is cool and everything but how awesome would it be to doing this alone right now? It sounds really bad saying that but i feel like we missed out cuz of no privacy. We were talking about how amazing it would be to go like on a road trip together as in just the 2 of us, i dont think my parents would let me do that anytime soon lol but yeah.

New Years Eve was great, we kissed at midnight which i never did before. Its funny we had that whole trip but we get tons of time alone when we come home lol. This is gonna be an awesome year!!

Lol that was still kinda long, im sorry..

@kala That sounds like a great New Years! You just keep having great frickin' holidays, don't you? The sister will probably tell Andy's parents about you guys having sex. Are you okay with that?

Yeah its funny, im not even a huge holiday person but its a excuse to make things special so im cool with that lol. About his sister i seriously dont think she would tell, she said she wont tell so im not worried at all, she doesnt even disagree with it so theres no reason. I would be upset but i know she wont.

i havent read this thread in about a month and i was gonna delete my account (you might be able to tell seeing as my profile info and shizz is gone) but im sooo glad i diddnt - after an eventful emotional month i come onto Teen Forumz and have read about a million posts - i think what you both have achieved is wonderful you deserve eachother. reading this makes me think that there is hope for the world and you can find love whe your young or old .... you Kala are officially a LEGEND!!!!! looking forward to reading more ;~)

Whoah thats crazy.. thank you so much!!! Legend is probably too far lol but thanks. I never thought someone could have a reaction like that, thats awesome!!

Where is KALA?

Unfortunately, she hasn't been here in a while. And as much as this pains me and the rest of Teen Forumz, this thread was just bumped. So, I'm closing it.

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"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot