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I currently have no crushes, love life, or anything like that. My crush from about 2 weeks ago or so is currently my bestfriend and for some reason, i keep remembering this girl who lead me on. Even when I was crushing on my bestfriend, this girl kept appearing in my mind. I always remember her when i hear a certain song.

Some of you might have read some of my post from the past and as i said before, i was originally from a different state and moved here some months ago. She lead me on then I gave her another chance. On the night of my flight, i was in the airport waiting for our plane. We kept texting each other and calling each other telling the other not to forget the other.

I never got her off my mind. Lots of people said i should forget her but for some reason, I just can't get her out of my head. I met her june 2010 and she lead me on til febuary 14 2011 (i can't forget that day. worst valentines EVER) then i gave her another chance sometime last march cause she said that she treated me wrong and that she was sorry. "Us" never happened tho. While waiting for our plane, i texted her "i love you." and she replied she loved me too then i called her then i heard her say it. For my first few weeks here in california, we never lost contact. We always kept in touch with each other but then after about 3 weeks or so she started to fade away. I see her facebook wall full of wall posts from boys. When i chat her she doesnt reply. She doesn't reply to my emails.

One day she chatted me. I asked her why she chatted me all of the sudden and then she said "that's cause i'm not chatting with anybody else" and that really hit me hard. I just finished watching a video from youtube saying sumthin bout girls like that. When no one's paying attention to them, they look for a rebound and that rebound is someone they know that can't resist talking to them. I finished our conversation then i started getting teary. (Pathetic right? lol) Anyways, so yeah. I got a wooden flashlight keychain with her name engraved on it and our picture together is still my wallpaper.


(i think the upload date was the day i gave her another chance. i THINK. i'm not sure. but if i'm right, what a freakin koinkidink)

I wanna forget her but i just can't. Any advice? I keep getting this false hope that "us" can still happen

I know it's hard but I think you have to just cut her from your life. To be honest, she sounds like a really crappy person.. Yeah she ran back and said sorry but that's cause she wanted attention really... She just plays with your mind and heart. Put the keyring in an old box somewhere so you forget, remove her picture, you have to ALLOW yourself to move on if you want to. Having those reminders every time you use those things isn't allowing yourself. You're torturing yourself with the memories. I know how hard it is to move on but with people like this you just have to cut them from your life and give yourself some time, talk to some new girls or friends. It will pass but you do need to get her out of your life, she's always going to keep playing with your mind and heart if you allow her there, even if at times she doesn't mean it, just talking with her again will make you fall back into liking her, which you deserve to get over and be happy.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Fate pulled you two apart. It doesn't matter who or what she is. It cant happen.

Thats the plain fact of it. Just do what ever you can by getting her out of your mind, out of your life. She will always be stuck in your memories that for sure, but only better memories can get rid of that by covering them up. So stop dwelling in the past, it wont change your future, hell your just wasting time thinking about it. So move on and find greener pastures.

Goodluck!

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

I never looked at it that way, "fate". I guess I should blow all this money? To forget her? Cuz i've been saving my weekly allowance for a plane ticket (didn't think it through) and now i have enough and since i was gonna use it, technically for her, i should just blow it, right? Proly stupid but anythin to get her out of my mind. Oh man i really can't stop thinkin bout her, especially with this song playing on my ipod 24/7


It's a song about moving on but it does the exact opposite to me. lmao

Don't just blow the money, think about using it for something good. And don't think about it was for her blah cause it wasn't it was your money. you're 15 save it and use it for a car next year.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3