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Hi, I'm new to this forum. I just need some advice, and I hope I can get it here.
For a bit now I've been in love with this girl, like I want to spend the rest of my life with her. She likes 2 of my other friends and wants to be with them (boyfriend & girlfriend). But the problem is that I want her!
So I was wondering how to tell her that I like her or am interested in her, with out saying it directly like "I love you"..
Listen to every word she says, and when she talks about things she likes take note. It doesn't have to be something really expensive, if she likes flowers- just a little daisy (or daisy chain! ) or something- and just be like 'I thought you would like this.' with whatever it is. She'll be really happy.
If not, just spend as much time as you can with her- be there for her as a friend when she needs it. Hopefully she'll get the picture.
Listen to every word she says, and when she talks about things she likes take note. It doesn't have to be something really expensive, if she likes flowers- just a little daisy (or daisy chain! ) or something- and just be like 'I thought you would like this.' with whatever it is. She'll be really happy.
If not, just spend as much time as you can with her- be there for her as a friend when she needs it. Hopefully she'll get the picture.
This, and you can always just tell her you like her. Just keep in mind you may want to wait, or idk, it's risky getting into a relationship with someone who already likes two other people so much, especially when you're so hardcore into her.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
What kate basically said. Also, compliment her whenever it's appropriate, but don't overdo it. And try to make it sound like you're just teasing her a bit. You might want to say something like you used to have a huge crush on her in the past, and then mention that you still think she's kind of cute/still have a little crush on her. There's a few other stuff, but this was pretty effective for me
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Honestly, whats always worked for me is getting into a girls head. Just mess with her a little bit, but then like act dejected when she is mean to you back. Just be playful and teasing about it.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
I read in Anthony Keidis' book Scar Tissue, that when he had a crush on a girl, he skipped class to go buy flowers for her. And then they were together for like 2 years or something.
try spend sometime together get to know her better and once you feel comfortable and there is only you two around then maybe tell her how you feel and ask her out somwhere?
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) or something- and just be like 'I thought you would like this.' with whatever it is. She'll be really happy. 
