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Hi, I recently made a thread stating that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with this girl I really like, but she liked 2 other boys. Well today I noticed that she changed her facebook relationship status to "in a relationship with (myfriend)".

My heart is broken, I feel like I have nothing left..
I don't know what to do! WHAT CAN I DO???
I seriously am considering suicide :(

Please, help me.

killing your self is not an option! dont do it!

That was foolish of your friend though , i was doing some things with a girl my friend liked and when i found out , i stopped talking to that girl and didnt continue it! because first are friends! , talk to your friend ... and calm down my friend you are 14 years old , too young! i remember soemone telling me that this age is the best for people to get in love , but you have the entire life in front of you , in order to experience better things and find a better girl and friends that you deserve

if you need help just drop an PM

Man come on, don't think of killing yourself.

She's not completely unavailable, you can still be her friend. Just try to get closer to her as a friend. And if they ever split, you might have a chance with her.
And if that doesn't work out, there's always going to be other girls in your life. It might feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with her, but you're only 14, so you haven't lived your life yet. Trust me, there's going to be other girls in your life and when you're older you'll look back and just laugh at this situation

Suicide? Really?
Get over it. You're 14. Why are you even contemplating suicide over a girl. Life could be worst.

You're 14!!! You know, there are more than just one girl out there. I know it may seem like the end of the world, but like I say all the time, relationships at your age don't last long at all.

I'm going to speak from experience. Its much more painful to try liking a girl who doesn't like you back than finding out she likes someone else.

Give it some time, you may meet someone in a few months or a year who completely blows this girl away and who actually likes you.

"When one door closes another door opens."

So, you would off yourself over a girl? That wouldn't be a smart move. You know, there are so many better things to die for. You are fourteen for goodness sakes. Alright, so she's dating your friend. Instead of being pissy and sad and depressed, be happy for your friend. She isn't the only girl out there.

I strongly suggest taking a look in the mirror and setting your priorities straight. Its alright to be sad and depressed, but not to the level of suicide.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

She isn't the only reason I'm considering suicide.. I have had allot of depressing things happen lately.

OK, that makes it a bit different then. Honestly, suicide is never the answer, so you can cross it off your "solutions" list. You have your whole life ahead of you- while quit while your down? You want to leave a winner, by natural causes. Don't give up.

Do you want to talk about it?

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

You can get over it man, resorting to suicide or even THINKING about about suicide really isn't the way to go. Why on earth would you want to end your life? Nothing stays bad forever, everything gets better with time. And you're only 14, so you have lots of time

Don't make permanent decisions from temporary situations.