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ok i dont know how to word this but this been on my mind. ok so there is this girl that i have like for as long as i remember. we have always have a thing but it never want anywhere. my feeling got stronger and hers well want away. so i tried everything i could to get her to like me again with no avail. so i got to the point where i have Given up. so i decide to move to Detroit and about every month i go back to Cleveland to visit my friends. For some reason every time i would go back me and this girl seen to get close. well this last time i want back she start asking like i want her to, very flirty and affectionate. i know i should be happy with this but there is something in the back of my mind tell me that she is playing me. y did it take me to move away for her to start acting this way i don't get it. do any one have any thought or comments. than you for reading.

This is just my opinion but don't do it, i might be wrong, i might be right but just don't do it. I think she's just wants to lead you on. Don't let it happen or else you'll get hurt. I had the same situation back then, kinda. If she completely faded away before then started to be all sweet and stuff all of the sudden, then that proly means you're her rebound. A rebound is someone a some girls talk to if they feel they're not good enough. They'll talk to someone they know can't resist talking to them.

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Just my opinion bruh. Even if i was right and i was you, i'd still do what feels right. If you get your heart broken then move on~

Goodluck!

In the nicest way possible. Maybe you took to long waiting to ask her out that she lost faith and thought you would not ask her out and thats maybe why her feelings were shown less each time and you moving to detroit showed her how much she misses you and i think the ball is in your court to go and ask her out if you are as close as you said then why not?

I say ask her out and hope for the best. If you don't ask her out you will be left wondering wether you two could have had something good or not .

I hope you understand my point .

I actually agree with Joe on this one. She probably gave up once you took too long to make a move.

But now is your shot. If she rejects you, end any and all contact with her. Be done with it. If she says yes, bingo, your in.

I think she is being genuine. But time to separate the men from the boys and make some moves.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Above seems correct.

So you should see what she does when you start flirting with her again. Just to see what happens. You can only figure this out if you try. Oh and dont go into it expecting it to be perfect, where you will end up married and stuff. Dating is almost always a game, so expect to lose =P
(not to be super negative)

Forgive the crappy grammar!
"The more man meditates upon good thoughts, the better will be his world and the world at large. " - Confucius
"The guy in the back always has something to say"

i have ask her out. but that was a while ago. we was going to to but she change her mind. so yea. she was afraid that we was going to loose our friend ship if we dated.

While I understand that concern, your friendship is already dying, no? Both of you have trouble sustaining a friendship when feelings are in the way. I say go for it agai.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

i will soon