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I'm a guy, and about 75% of my friends are girls. I'm not gay, but girls always seem to look at me as their gay best friend. I love all of my girl friends, but I hate being viewed this way. No girls ever like me as more than a friend, except for girls that are retarded or 3 years younger than me. I've never had a girlfriend that's lasted more than a week. I'm not creepy or ugly, but for whatever reason, girls only want to be friends with me. Any advice or anything?

My Humble Opinion:

I'm nearing the end of my (shitty) high school saga, so I'd say that most of the girls your age aren't really thinking long-term so...

Since you said 75% of your friends are girls, I'm guessing you're a pretty communicative guy (and probably more empathetic aka nicer than most).
Unfortunately, if we assume that girls around your age are more immature
then we also can assume that they're just looking for "hot" guys, not people
who are nice.

Since you speak English, I'm going to assume you live in a
Westernized country. In most Western cultures, girls aren't supposed to come
onto guys, you're supposed to be the one hitting on them or something...
So it's completely possible that some of them like you but then there's the
social/cultural pressures.

Either that you should stop acting like a gay! Or you should stop befriending arrogants!

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

^acting like a gay? What's wrong with having lots of girlfriends? I have lots of girlfriends. I'm the farthest thing from being homosexual.

OT: Just try to drop some hints that you might be interested in any one of them. Since you seem to be one of those "Nice guys", you can try being extra nice to one of them. Or you can try giving them not as much attention, it might make them a little jealous. Never been in this situation so I don't really know, goodluck though

i fill his pain.......... well some parts of what he wrote.... but for me, the girls that like me more a friend, they are a year younger then me and even younger, and they are not retarded because they are gold diggers as well as like 3 girls my age who like me...

I would advise patience. Don't worry too much about that at the moment. Just focus on yourself for a while. Wait until people mature and the short term mating strategies settle down a bit. You'll find it much easier to find someone that not only you will be happy with but someone who will truly be happy with you. Unless, of course, you are angling for a short term mating pattern. Then you would truly have to change how you act. I would advise against this. but that is ultimately up to you.