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ok so im bad with girls..each time im getting one im screwing it up.
me and my last last girl been dating this summer..and it kinda ended akwardly.
we just got mad on each other and stopped meeting, without saying shit like i wanna be friends..and we ignoring each other in hallways in school..
so its suck..but actually i dont give a shit..i had another one after..we broke up as friends..
so the thing is:
i really like some girl, and she a good firend of my ex-ex one..
and i want to ask her out..should i?

u know cuz girls tell shit about guys, i dont want to make it look like imma player, that she will run to her after i asked her out,
and they will talk how bad i am..

If it's been awhile since you broke up, then go for it. If they think you're a player, well then they're obviously wrong because it's been awhile, and you wouldn't have a chance anyways if they're that close. just give it a go, if it's a no it's a no.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I see nothing wrong with it. However, it could be a bitchy move on this girls part if she says yes. I try not to flirt with my friends's exes, simply because of Bro Code. But, I see nothing wrong with it from your point of view- its not like you're still on speaking terms with you past ex.

Also, in order to make this one last a little longer, I would get to know her a bit more first if you don't already.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Theres nothing wrong with it really, just make sure your actually making a decent desicion and you think it will last- just from your description it seems you start and finish a little too often.

You can also say something along the lines "I like you but I understand if it's awkward because of my ex, but it's been awhile so I thought it would be worth a try.." that way, it shows your acknowledging the ex and not just ignoring the issue which would make you look like a player so, all around might be better. think about how you want to word it, etc. but go for it.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Indeed you might wanna word it better than just"hey, i fancy you, wanna go out?" but otherwise I don't see a problem with it. maybe you should look into why you are struggling to keep a girl, alternatively it could just be rotten luck, anyway good luck, hope it goes better this time

Don't just jump in to asking this new girl out. Spend time with her before anything happens and just in case your ex does say anything then make surethis new girl knows what your personality is actually, so she wont listen to the shit your ex might say. Just be careful and make sure that you are sure of your feelis for this other girl, because otrewise you risk being branded a player, and you don't want that, believe me!