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Hi im 15, sophmore in high school and all i want in life is a girlfriend.

Im good looking but shy and akward, please how do I change? I want this so bad thanks.

Just start talking to girls and being more social overall to get over your shyness. You can't do much sitting on the sidelines. Make yourself available. If you find someone you like, initiate a conversation with them, you don't have to like ask them out right away.

Good luck though.

Stop trying to get one! You'll never get one and it work good if you're trying. It just comes to you. Just be yours, be happy, hang out with people and some girl will notice you, you'll notice her, etc.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Step 1: Be yourself. Just be happy with yourself, mate. Girls like happy guys. They're easier to talk to.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

You may feel as if having a girlfriend would make your life "complete", but trust me, there are much more important things in life to worry about, especially at your age. You're 15—work hard at school so that you can go to a good college so that you can support yourself with a good job when you're an adult. Girls and boys in high school are mostly immature and enjoy drama and playing with others, and oftentimes see dating as a status rather than something personal. It won't make you feel good to be shuffled around, trust me.

If you really do want a girlfriend though, simply talk to girls you like. Avoid asking them out the first time you talk. Don't flirt excessively. Be friendly and show that you aren't a jerk. It's pretty simple if you're a more sociable person.

By not thinking about it! Because that will make you do a lot of stupid things which aren't you only to impress the girls!

Don't push it. Just let it come by itself.

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

What's the big deal with having a girlfriend. When you stop looking you'll probably get one.

Be yourself and don't worry about it.

Seriously, don't worry about it. If an arsehole like me can get a girlfriend then I'm sure you won't have any issues what-so-ever.

Like Kirk said, Be yourself and stop worrying about it!
Just talk to girls, get to know them and it'll happen soon enough

Michael~

I agree, i think the main thing is be friendly with girls, if you make new friends maybe they should be girls! Dont think about asking them out just be friendly first, i mean she wont assume you are gonna try something.