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So I have been meditating, fasting, and trying to be truly happy. Now I believe I have begun on the pathway that is leading me to happiness, but in order to get on it I had to ignore her, because she brought my mind turmoil.

Now tell me if it sounds like she is on the verge of dating this guy, who I know he knows me, and we are actually pretty cool with each other. She wears his football jersey, the hug daily, he walks her to other classes, but I think he has a girlfriend, but I am not sure.

But today I told her why I was avoiding her, I have begun to not want to talk to anyone unless we can connect on a level where we can truly think. I told her she was one of the kindest, most intelligent and competent individuals, I have ever met and I would not want to fill the space we talk with bullshit.

She said that was one of the sweetest things someone had ever said with her, but I am not sure if she cares for me, and I don't think I care about losing her anymore.

hurts but it does sound like the best thing to just move on, you can find another girl who will make you happy (:

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I am not sure if things are one between them though, today he told her that she would look beautiful dressed anyway, but I also told her today that I know she doesn't like it when people don't take her seriously because she is beautiful, and that her beauty has nothing to do with how I treat her.

Does it matter if they date...? she obviously is acting like they date, hes obviously treating her like his gf and she doesn't care that it's probably hurting his real gf when she finds out.. doesnt sound like a good mess to get into.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I all ready involved, I am going to tell him if his intentions towards her aren't good, if doesn't care about her and only wants to get in her pants, he is going to answer to me. I don't really care if we are together, I don't want to see her get hurt though.

Hey, you're a noble guy, and she doesn't deserve you. However, tone it down a bit with all of the mysticism and self cleansing that you mention to her. While I understand why you are doing it, some would categorize it as strange, and if all she can respond to is is "thats one of the sweetest things, xyz" then you're too good for her.

In inevitably, if they date, they date. You can't be angry at her for that. Its every girls dream to date a football player. Just let her go, man. No need to be melodramatic in any which way.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

She has known me for nearly three years, and I have known him for just this quarter, you know what, I just want what is best for her, we are texting right now actually. I am in Hollister at a jam session with friends and she is at homecoming, she didn't have a date, didn't go with a date, but knows that I don't do that shit.

So, they are not dating, but I have been dealing with a death of a family friend, and helping my friend with his father's death for the past week.

She prayed for us when she found this out, and when I told her I wouldn't be at school on Monday she said she would miss me, and said she felt sorry.

When I told her that the funeral would be more of a celebration of his life and the love that remains there, she told me that that was incredibly cute of me to say. I then told her I didn't think that this was cute, and she said I usually do things that are cute.

She seems to be the type to flirt with any guy..*shrugs*

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I agree and disagree with Kate. I think this girl is just... desperate. She wants attention. I think she thinks you'll always be there. Make her want you, mate. I know its hard, but make her message/call you first.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot