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Ok I have this freind called Micheal, and I have a crush on him I always have but I'm alreddy in a relationship. I love my boy freind but I love Mick too I don't want to leave my bf but i feel i connect more with Mick. Any advice anyone?

If he's just an online friend and you've never actually met him then i doubt you love him.

Michael is someone you've never met and is from the internet. You're already in a loving relationship.

Stay with your current boyfriend, and think about limiting your contact with Michael if you think it'll help you lose your crush on him.

Tough position to be in, I say you should stick with your current boyfriend, if you dump him, then micheal turns out to not feel the same about you, you'll be in a much worse position.

^ This,

Don't let a crush ruin your relationship.

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this ^^^^ it's really an easy decision. We all have different relationships with different friends, and sumtimes friends (online and irl) can be actually easier than bf/gfs, but you have the most time/effort/love put into your bf so don't blow it bc of a crush. If need be, dump your online crush if it takes too much away from your bf.

Agreed with the majority. Why would you mess up a tangible relationship, where you can see and touch and hear the person, and give it up for some guy on the internet.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Do what you feel is right, contact at first isn't everything. Just really sit down and think about which you'd be happier with and which person means more to you and you couldn't live without. Time will tell.

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by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
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Is this a serious question?! Is there even a chance to meet Michael? and is there a chance that he feels the same towards you?

A lot of people don't take their connections with online people so seriously, even if they claim that they do...

I definitely think that you should stick with your boyfriend!

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

and what if she has the chance to meet him irl and find they can start something? didn't we hear experience of meeting people from the internet among members around here?

...and what if they don't, and it's merely a crush?

it's really up to her to see the possibilities in here, but mostly to be aware that she's into a relationship right now, so obviously there are other factors that are making her get interested on that guy.l

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