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hi so i've noticed in my oast relationships that i stop liking a boy when i get the feeling that something could actually happen. Do you all think i have trust issues and need to take the plunge with the next guy or should i wait for someone i like no matter what? i also haven't had my first kiss and really want to--should i do it with someone random or someone that i like?

Deffinately wait for someone you like! Its worth it. And don't worry, last time I liked someone as soon as they started showing some interest I realise how much we didn't have in common and stopped liking them. I suppose its kinda natural?

yeah but it happen like every time whenever a guy shows interest i just stop liking him

hm, I don't know. You might just have to learnt to trust them, might it be happening cause of something bad in the past or whatever? If it is trust, don't go with your head next time.

Edit: we have the same name, just saying.

maybe you've just been going after the wrong guys so far. definitely wait for someone you really like, it'll be way worth it. and don't worry about not having your first kiss yet, no guy is going to care if he really likes you anyway.

I do the same with girls, -.- I dont really have trust issues, but ive quite badly found out that i end up going out with these girls and then dumping them because i just stop liking them, but first kiss for you should be when you feel comfortable, theres no shame in kissing someone random, and no shame in waiting for someone that you like

thank you all so much I think i found someone i really do like this time. he will be a little harder to get than the guys i usually go for, but ive decided this time im just going to go for it! thanks for the advice!!!
PS kate is an awesome name!!