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so i met a girl, known her for a while, she invited me to a gig with her, it was great, but then she came over to mine and we watched a movie, and we cuddled, his went on for a few days, then we snogged, great. last night, we must have been pulling for about an hour because by we started at the end of one album, and finished at the end of another. i text her first a lot. i'm always scared she doesn't like me, and worry about it until she texts me. when i have been waiting on a text i check my phone contently. I text her asking her if she is coming out the following day, right after i say goodbye. am i being to clingy?
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Well about the texting thing; alot of girls don't text first because they're scared that they're being too clingy and don't want to feel like they're annoying you. She probably feels great that you're texting her all the time.
As for you being clingy well, personally I don't think so. I personally have a high tolerance for "clingyness" and I like it to an extent xD So I might not be of much help but if you feel like you're being too clingy or she says something about it then text her less and ask her to go out less. This only has to be for a while and everyone has small periods of being clingy with each other every so often.
Not really, I don't think so. You just have a little crush, it's pretty normal.
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Maybe a little. You wanna give her a little bit of space sometimes. Girls don't normally like it when a guy's being too clingy, it gets on their nerves.
I don't think your being too clingy, don't fret about it if she doesn't text first all the time though. As Lauren said, most girls worried about coming across as clingy themselves.
It's going to depend on the girl, honestly.
You're not really being clingy, just excited and nervous,
and if she's not into you not into a serious thing, then she'd find it clingy.
But if she likes you, it probably flatters her and she will think you're not being clingy.
So it depends on the girl. Id say just make a date and see what she says.
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Like DeepDistress said, it depends on the girl, but I think that in the average relationship, I wouldnt think you're too clingy. Hell, I'll probably be the same way when I get a girlfriend one day.
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am i being clingy, or just paranoid? :S
