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Anyway, My ex really loved me and I really loved her. however her mother may die, and she might move away so we broke up.. But I want her back so we can go through it together. I really love her. I'd protect her and do long distance...I just can't convince her. She's so worried..I mean, I'd die for this woman. Help!!
Just be there for her as a friend, comfort her, be with her, be a friend first. let her go through this tough time and after, when she can clear her head she will decide if she wants to be with you or not, but right now, you need to be there for her and not for your own reasons to want to be with her. She needs a strong friend to help her through this, so just do that and see how it plays out. A relationship is the last thing on her mind right now.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Well maybe she'll realize she still wants that after... but think if she was the one dying in your life.. you think she'd give two shits about somebody else in her life? no, she'd be fully thinking about you and losing you, that's what she's doing with her mother. So give her time, be there for her, don't pressure her.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Well I get that..It's just killing me..We wanted to marry when we were old enough and shit...
You need to understand what she's going through right now. She's losing her mom, and she needs to spend as much time with her as she can while she still can. The time is precious and it's ticking away. Mom is priority #1 right now.
Just be there for her and don't worry about marriage and all that yet. Be someone that she can go to for comfort and support when she needs it.
It's okay, you kinda were going through a very very very mild version of what she was, losing the person you love. but just remember, she's not going anywhere. she just needs some time to deal with her mom because her mom is going somewhere, she's dying. she's never going to be able to speak to her again, be at her wedding, see her children, etc etc. just be there for her and in time maybe she will see.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
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). Be there when she need a friend most. After a while, then let her decide what to do next.
