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Just wanted some opinions from some people about a situation.

Me and my boyfriend have only been together 6 months.
He has a best friend that's a girl and I'm fine with them hanging out and being friends, but it bothers me when he stays the night at her house.

He had another friend that was a girl and he talked to her while me and him were fighting and started to like her as more than a friend and it has me uptight about other girls and him.

He stopeed being friends with her because it would help him get over her and he doesn't like her anymore.

Is this normal? Am I just crazy? What would you think?

Personally? Staying the night isn't always a problem, but only if you are always talking with your boyfriend and trust is good between you.

Have you talked to him about how you feel?

I don't think your crazy in the slightest but be very carefull not to make assumptions.

Talk to him about it.
Ask him how he'd feel if you slept over at boy's houses?
Idk, I see nothing really wrong with it, but you got to trust him to feel okay with it.

You're not crazy, I think any girl would worry and that honestly.
But you have to think, he stopped being friends with someone he liked so it wouldn't ruin your relationship, not many guys would do that.. Most people are like stay friends and if you like them more, well then you like them more, and break up with the other girl. Which I don't think that's the case in relationships, if you have feelings for that person you should stay with them till the feelings leave or are different, any like or crush will want you to leave really, it's the fun new excitement and lust not always it's a better girl. So just talk to him about it, perhaps compromise as in he has to sleep in a different room then her, he texts before bed so you know nothing is up, stuff like that. You're always going to worry but that's how relationships and love is, but you have to trust until it's proven to not trust him, which him not being friends with the other girl proves hes pretty trustworthy.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Okay Thank you...I am in the process of gaining back my trust in him and things like this put it to the test.