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Hello I am trevor and this is my first post on this website or anywhere asking for advice really. With that out of the way let's move on to the reason I'm here: a wonderful girl named jacy.

I have just started highshcool at a-tech ( an extremely stressful magnet school) and there is a very cute girl in half of my classes named jacy. The year started off very awkwardly around her but we sit across from eachother and have caught eachother looking at one another so we began talking in between classes and when we sit next to eachother.

So by now I know I like her and I'm pretty sure she likes me but I have absolutely no idea where to go from this point. I mean I haven't had an "actuall" relationship ever. I have been turned down before but it doesn't really bother me , but I dont want to ruin it if it would just need more time. The year is 1/4th over and it would be so great if we were together but kindof awkward if she said no.

Aditional info: I am shy in a strange sense. I hate talking infront or crowds, but I randomly talk to anyone around me. I had a major dating mishap in the fith grade and kind of stopped caring about dating till 8th grade where I liked my friends "gf" (they had gone on two dates in three years of "dating") and a girl I almost had the couage to ask out. My school is for geeks and lawyers to be pretty much. People play yu-gi-oh at lunch and aren't trashcanned for it.

Info about her: she seems to be very outgoing with her friends and gets nervous easily like me, takes dance (if that matters to you) doesn't like school but makes it through smiling and is beautiful.

Sorry if it was long. Any help at all is appreciated.

If you feel that it needs more time, then give it more time. Maybe ask if she wants to hang around after school or something? Just so you two get to know each other better and feel more comfortable in each other's company Once your happy around each other and she still shows signs of liking you, then ask her out.
It's better to ask and get an answer, be it a yes or a no, than to sit there wondering what it could have been.
I'm just the same, I can't stand talking to large crowds (or any crowds at all actually...) but I'm alright if I just chat to one or two people, so your not alone.

And your school sounds awesome. Yu-Gi-Oh was a great game

Michael~

I agree! If it is awkward, you really need to hang out to make it not awkward anymore. Hang out, talk, text- if that's possible- anything. Get to know her. ^^ Good luck! I hope things turn out how you want them to!

Yu-Gi-Oh is amazing!

Thanks for the advice but I had forgotten to mention that we live an hour away from eachother so casually meeting at the movies or something wouldnt work well. Also it is not awkward just talking to eachother isn't awkward but if it didnt work out it would be. Her mom is super strict about staying late for clubs and stuff like that after school.

if shes so far away and cant stay out perhaps your better trying to find another girl before you really crush hard on her...? it doesn't seem like it'd work..

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

The way my school is that people come from all over the city to it so no matter who I like it would be difficult to hang out after school. We have the schedule so we see eachother like 6 hours a day. I agree it would be strange but i see people work it out at my school daily and I gives me a bit of hope. I'm not "crushing" all that hard but I do appreciate the advice alot.

Update: the class where we talkd had a seating chart change and now were kinda distant. We still chat every now and then but I don't know how to become closer with her. I caught her looking at me a few times (she is very sneaky about it ) and I think she likes ne but we don't really have freinds in common so I don't know how to become closer friends. Any ideas?

I corrected your post

anyways: If you're interested in the girl then go approach her. Talk to her, make friends. You said you can talk to people, so go talk to her! She is a person isn't she? So go for it!

Good in theory scary as heck to actually do. She's always surrounded by people I don't know. I have no clue how to approach her what to say or any of that stuff. I can talk to people one on one, but not with people I dont know. Thanks for the input though.