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Old 30-10-11, 07:22 PM   #1
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Icon11 Over coming the fear of rejection

Im 15 and a sophomore in high school my school is filled with white rich preppy kids who like to gossip(most places the same probally) i dont want to ask out these girls in my classes that are showing mixed emotions or the ones i'd just stab in the dark with But, if i ask her out and she rejects me will it be awkward and spread through the school or would she just brush it off and live life like it was
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Old 30-10-11, 07:26 PM   #2
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depends on the chick.
If she's a stupid bitch who only thinks of herself and thinks of you as a pathetic loser, she will probably rumor.

If she actually likes you, but her friends think your a pathetic unpopular loser, she will probably rumor and make fun of you to hide how she really feels, so you don't ruin her imagine.

Or, she could be a nice girl and like you and date.


So.... best thing to do is just be friends ya know? hang out, get to know her, see what type of person she is.
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Old 30-10-11, 07:28 PM   #3
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If she's mature, she'll reject in a kind way. Most girls our age are mature, especially at rich preppy schools (I attend a school like this, so if yours is like mine we're on the same page).








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Old 30-10-11, 07:38 PM   #4
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depends on the chick.
If she's a stupid bitch who only thinks of herself and thinks of you as a pathetic loser, she will probably rumor.

If she actually likes you, but her friends think your a pathetic unpopular loser, she will probably rumor and make fun of you to hide how she really feels, so you don't ruin her imagine.

Or, she could be a nice girl and like you and date.


So.... best thing to do is just be friends ya know? hang out, get to know her, see what type of person she is.
That would be great but how would i go about doing that i mean its kinda awkward imo if i just walk up to her and say whatchu doing this weekend if we are in the same group in a class and we are talking to i ask or wait till were out of the group so the other people dont get in my business
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Old 30-10-11, 07:39 PM   #5
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Well you have to build it up, try and talk to her more and more each day, just small talk. See how she responds, if after awhile of talking and her seeming into it, ask her to hang out casually sometime.









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Old 31-10-11, 12:27 AM   #6
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Most likely reject and gossip.
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Old 31-10-11, 12:50 AM   #7
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Default Re: Over coming the fear of rejection

I agree with @DeepDistress I think you need to talk to her more and get to know her, she may not even reject you at all

It is worth getting to know the person before you prepare for the worst, yes I know how you feel, I am like it everytime I ask a girl out but the feeling will never go away until you ask her out.








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