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ok so there is a girl..lucy..and i dont know what to do..shes from my math class..and she sits 2 chairs behind me.2 of my good friend sits behind and infront of me..and i cant talk to her..and i dont wanna tell them like to move cuz i prefer to talk to other girl..
i dont know how to start a talk and how to ask her out..i never see her after school (only in that class) and it will be imbaracing just to come in the class and ask her out..what to do?
shes looking at me, nd when im turning my face towards her she turning around :so i think she might like me too..
please help me!!

Or she could be wondering why you keep turning around to look at her 'cause you're freaking her out?

It wouldn't be embarrassing to just go into class and ask out a girl you've never spoken to before, it'd be stupid. The outcome would be embarrassing.
If you can't even ask your friends to swap seats so that you might be closer to her, therefore allowing you to speak to her, then I don't think you should be thinking of asking her out. That's all you need to do really; swap sweats with your friends and start talking to her when you can. I'm sure you'll figure out what the best move would be from there.

You need to speak to her more, hang out with her at break times and luch but don't be really over the top. I think Montreal's idea about switching places with your mates is a good idea so that you two can talk more

Bu tdon't just rush into things or you will probably ruin things just be yourself

but how to approach her?
shes with her friend
im with mine..how do i talk to her if i never see her alone!!
im just so despered already!!!!!!!!!

Well start with "Hi, how're you doing?" or just a simple "hey" when you see her, and don't forget to smile (Try not to screw up the smile [Yes, it can happen]). Then get to swap seats with your friends in the class you have with her and whenever it's appropriate; talk to her about whatever you have. School, music, movies, friends, you can even ask her what she did on the weekend. It's not that hard.
And when she's with friends you can do the exact same; say hi, ask her how she is, what she did over the weekend. That's about all the help anyone can give you, you're going to have to figure out the rest for yourself (And there isn't even that much left to figure out)

thnx