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There are three guys I really, really like. I have liked them for a very long time. But here is the problem, I don't know how to them them I like them. I want to tell them all but I am too scared. And on top of that I don't know whitch one of them I like more. I am so confused. Every time I walk up to either of them I start to them the I like you and then I change the subject. Can any one please tell me how to tell it to them?

I pity you, liking 2 people at a time is bad enough. Do you know all 3 of them well, if not, get to know them all, this may help your decision.

Have you tried just chatting to them? Some times if you just be yourself around a person that you like you will quickly find out who you like quicker.

If you are really unsure about who you like then try and see which of the three likes you, have a private conversation with them and talk about it.

I think if you just spend time with the guys in private or hanging out for a day then your question will answer itself

Thanks for the reply. Ill try and do that to see how it works.

Thanks for response it really helps. It sounds like a good idea to get to know them more. but one out of the three is not the talking type. He keeps things short. ut Ill still try anyway!

Don't tell any of them till you pick one you really like the most...

What if all three like you? then you hurt at least two. And you won't be able to decide which one to pick, that will hurt three then. And hurt you.

If you like them all, then you need to just wait till it becomes clear who you like most.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I really appreciate that response. That was really helpful and it's a good idea. Now I know to look before I fall.

You especially don't want to get into a relationship when you like so many other guys.. It's hard enough having a small crush on someone else while in another relationship, your mind thinks about the other guy, what ifs, makes you think you like them more, etc. It's all confusing so just give it time so it's not hard on you, and will be fair to the guy your dating. Plus you're young, at 14 your going to like loadsss of guys doesn't mean it will last or you should date any of them, liking is liking let it be. you don't have to date even though it feels like you have to pick one or be taken.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

observe whether one of them shows any sign that he likes you. choose that one. if three of them are showing the same sign, hmm.. maybe you just have to test three of them by doing something.

I would just pick your favorite that you are certain likes you. Once you enter the euphoria of a relationship, a lot of the time crushes dissolve.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot