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Theres this other guy, ive known him for four years now and are families are friends. he is constantly in and out of my life and about three years back i completly fell for him. He and i would always go off and mess around and just do everything together. People that didnt know us thought we were dating, so all the girls we would meet while our families would go camping would hate me but i was fine as long as i got to hang out with him. He had the power to make me feel like i was flying and also the power to make me feel like i was nothing. Once i got into highschool our families stoped camping and hanging out with each other because of money. He stoped talking to me at school unless it was to tease me. He would go get his other friends to mess with me every now and then or steal a soda from my lunch, but that all stoped around september. He is 3 months older than me and i was turning 15 that month. It was also the time of our city's fair day so our families went camping down by the river close to the fair. He was acting distant and i found out he had a girl friend. As you can imagine i was devastated but i acted like nothing was wrong. After that during school he stoped talking to me all together, i would see him in the hallways and he wouldnt even look at me. He dumped her during the summer and things between us went back to normal, but now he has a new girl friend and the only time he says anything to me is when he is insulting me in the hallways. What do i do? Should i move on and give up or keep holding on?

I think you should move on. He doesn't really sound interested in you.

He sounds like he just uses you for bait of fun in between girlfriends.... Does he know how you feel because that also could be a reason he doesnt know you like him.

Oh i don't know, sometimes us guys are funny with showing emotion, we like to confuse people

I'd give up. If he's taking time out of his day to insult you in hallways, he's obviously not worth you sticking around waiting for him. Find someone better!

Don't just give up. What's the worst he c,ould say? No?? Then everything is how it is now. I think its worth a shot.

I think you should move on. I know its hard, and I know you don't want to, but as long as you stick to obsessing over this guy, the more painful it will be once you realize that he isn't into you.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

What part of that gave you any inspiration to give it a try? Was it the part where he was ignoring you or the part where he was ignoring you?

i think you should move on. open your heart for someone else to get in. it's hard i know. but if you love him, you should set him free. if he comes back, he'll be yours forever. i hope you'll find someone who loves you someday.

I'd give up and move on, but as you're questioning whether or not move on, you clearly still like him.
Have you tried to talk to him even when he has a girlfriend or do you just wait for him? Just act like everything's normal and maybe he might do too..

YOU NEVER KNOW, HES PROBABLY TRYING TO MAKE YOU JEALOUS. HE MIGHT LIKE YOU SECRETLY. YOU SHOULD TRY TO MAKE PLANS. ID HE IGNORES YOU WHEN YOU TRY TO TALK TO HIM JUST DO WHAT I DO, KEEP BOTHERING HIM UNTIL HE ANSWERS. OR YOU CAN ASK WHY ARE YOU BEING MEAN? WHAT DID I EVER DO TO YOU?