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Me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago. Last weekend I spent the night with another girl who is kind of friends with her (not close friends). We didn't have sex but we made out and cuddled all night. I thought this would help me get over my ex but it didn't. My ex and I agreed to try again after waiting a bit longer. Should I tell her about this now to see if it changes anything?. I'd rather her find out now from me than from someone else in the future, but at the same time I don't think I did anything wrong because we weren't together at the time.

I wouldn't. I think that considering that you aren't dating in the interim, it doesn't matter. She could do the same if she so chose to. As long as this doesn't continue when you get back into a relationship with her, its alright.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Well did you imply that you didn't see anyone else while you were broken up?
If she thinks you never hooked up or was with someone else, id tell her. I think she has the right to know, plus she'll be pissed if she finds out later.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

you don't have to tell her.

Well I dunno To be honest, me and my ex were gonna try again, and i felt guilty that some girl had asked me out (I said no, but meh you get the point) ....She went ape shit at me....

Kinda ironic that after she raged she told me 3 people asked her out during the time we werent together.... (no i didnt rage at her)

You were both single, it's your choice what you do.

thanks for advice. decided to tell her. she was pissed but its not a deal breaker