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Idk why I feel more conformable telling a bunch of strangers on the internet over my friends and family but here it goes:

I'm kinda friends with this girl that I like, (where mostly friends cause I started talking with her cause I like her) I've told her I like her she said she liked me but she was dating another guy at the time, but now there broken up because he knocked her up and left...... which leads use to the problem, I still really like her but i have no interest in having or looking after a baby. I feel that if we do start going out I'll leave like the last guy once the baby is born and I don't want to do that.........

Stay the hell away from her then, that will be the last thing she needs, somebody else to leave her cause of the baby.

Maybe you should just offer her support as a friend if you dont think you will be able to handle a relationship with a baby.

Then don't go out with her then... Don't hurt the girl a second time just like the other guy did. Simple as that. You guys can just stay friends if you'll feel uncomfortable raising a baby with some one right now.

Get away from her, your feelings shouldn't and don't matter she has enough going on and she doesn't need someone iffy like this in her life, no offense to you, but get the hell away.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Only go out with her if you like her well enough to stand by her through all the trouble while the baby is born and for a few months after. About the baby: remember she made the baby and the father only contributed a few molecules of DNA, it's part of her.

If you just want a short term fling, go somewhere else.

If you're not mature enough to handle the responsibility then that tells you that you're not ready for a relationship that this particulargirl needs. She has a lot going on and needs nothing but the support of her friends and family. Be that friend, see how you feel about her, the baby, and the situation.

If you can't deal with the responsibility of having a baby, then get the hell out, obviously.

You don't wanna look after a baby. Don't bother.

Get the fuck away you immature kid.

thank you for re-posting what everyone above you has already told me you stupid whore :/