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Hey ya'll I finally got away from my crazy... Ex Girlfriend. And have moved on, I found a girl that is great. She lives like... 3 blocks away from me And I like her alot. We have been going out for 2 weeks. We have gone out to eat, double dated taken walks hung out. and done alot of things! And its great but here comes the question. My Ex Was clingy... really clingy, but my new girlfreind is.. like not clingy haha if i want to do something she lets me do it, if i want to hang out with someone she lets me. She will let me talk to girls as freinds if i want and its great!!! But here is what im confused about.. and im not complaining. But she is not very.... umm.. romantic? I tell her sweet stuff and every now and again she'll saw awww but thats it. and she also doesnt like cuddling... Am I just crazy for expecting this much for only 2 weeks? We have clicked pretty good in the past couple of weeks, and we have told each other were taking things slow, we have kissed and made out alittle. We agreed not to tell each other we love each other until we REALLLY mean it. Am I just expecting to much out of her for only 2 weeks?

Things like this take time. I'm not saying you're expecting too much of her, but if you're deciding to take it slow, maybe she interprets it differently then you do?

I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.

Good point, Yesterday was the first time id stepped foot in her house. And she has yet to be to mine. Is this uncommon?

Love sucks.. give it up before it burns your soul into black dust..

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Well each relationship is different terms of timing, so I wouldn't worry about it too much.

I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.

It could be that you two haven't really been dating all that long and it will just take time, or it could be that she's the type of girl who doesn't like to cuddle and be romantic. I remember when I had just started dating a guy he would say sweet things almost right off the bat but I wasn't feeling it (being that level of romantic) at that point. So again, maybe it will just take time.

like the rest said, it really takes time. maybe she's not romantic type or she thinks that you just say it without mean it. try other ways to please her and show your love but don't expect too much or else she will think that you're rushing her.

Some girls are more open to cuddling than others, some girls hug their friends all the time, others only hug those they are in a stable relationship with, just be patient, she'll become more comfortable with it eventually.

I'm in the same boat as you. Everyone has told me it takes time, so we'll see how that goes.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

She's slow. A lot of girls are like that, especially virgins.

Persistence pays. If you like her that much then work on her and keep working.