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On this intercultural exchange program I have been associating in a school too and I'm in the last grade which means there's gonna be a prom party --on december > <" I 've known this for months and didn't worry much about it. But now---I didnt go to school 2 days ago and my friends told me that today is the first day of the dance rehearsal! > < " It will be at 8pm until 10 and everyone has got to go with their partner to reherse the dance. I'm still worried about this " There's a german guy of 18 yrs old who's a participant of the same exchange program who I guess has the most possibility to accept my invitation to be my prom partner. But on my mind, it's the boy (my host cousin? ) who I really want to be my prom partner -- but there's less possibility that he will accept cause he 's a kind of stubborn > <" he's the boy who always teases me and picks on me a lot , we always meet each other . One thing that he makes me wanna scream is that he always makes jokes and when I ask something he always answers like, undirectly-.- like once I asked him"How's your sister ?" he replied"she's standing .." --another day I asked him when he didnt talk to me "What's wrong with you ??" he said ,"I 've got a new finger skate "
After all, he 's the boy whom Im having crush on > <" There's no much time to find a prom partner cause the party will be on Dec 17th , I think. As I told you there's a german guy too and almost everyone tells me to go with him. Anyway some of my cousins tell me that I could go with the boy (who I like) cause he 's 15 and is my size and is the boy who I know best > <!!

Well, and I also wanna know how to start the invitation:
"Hey, could you be my prom partner ,please ?"
"Hey you're busy at 8pm today ?"
"i dont 'have a partner to dance with me at prom , and you're the nearest to me. Could you do me a favor going with me to prom ?"

Which question I should ask first ? Or if none of them is okey please help me think better ones !!


I'm worried> <"

"Come to prom with me?" Straight up, it's hot.

And you guys rehearse for prom? Never heard of that before :o

I'd say ask the guy you want to go with first.
He might say yes, you never know.

As for asking him, just be quite straight forward?
"I was wondering if you'd come to the prom with me?" something like that maybe?

Don't let other people's opinions sway you on who you're asking.
It's a matter of who you want to ask, rather than a matter of who you should ask

Michael~

thanks montreal: ) Mmm.. i dont know , i told you this is not my country . and I 've never been to a prom before> <

Thanks bridie) You're right, he might say yes (?)

Just now someone told me that the german guyy could probably not be able to go to prom due to his work : ( The boy I like is my best choice now > <" though at school there are still some guys that I could ask , but you know--- I like him > <"

Go for it Good luck.

If he does say no though, it's not the end of the world.
Go with one of the other boys you can ask and enjoy yourself.

Michael~

Yes, I've prepared my heart already A friend told me not to worry too much cause you're not going to marry with your prom partner lol

One more question !!
Would it be better if I go to ask him with my school uniform , or casual clothes ? Just ask> < if it's different-- (?) (I mean, now I'm in my uniform should I change my clothes first ?)

I don't really see that it should make a difference to be honest.
Just wear whatever you want to wear

Michael~

Who cares lmao, I don't think he'll be paying attention anyway.

Good Luck