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okay this will be long.

So i have never had a girlfriend in my life, not because i don't like girls, i am fat, or not hansom.

This is because of three mane things,
1. i have been home schooled all my life, my dad did not like how the school system is so he home schooled me, and my brother for are hole school lives. My brother is 1.5 years older then me so he is in college, so technically i have not been home schooled all my life, but that has put me in a place were i am not use to talking to to girls and getting to know them. to get around the lack of talking to people are ages we joined a church group, which is good, but i still don't know how to, lets say ask a girl out, or even were to begin to talk to them most of the time.(witch is part of my main point)

2. parents broke up for multiple reasons, witch put me in to a sort of sad state for a long time, but i am good now.

3. my voice is, to put into basic terms, is stuffy, witch is because i am tall, 6.2, witch is one thing i want to know, can a deeper stuffy voice make girls run.

So witch brings me into my mane point.

there are 3 girl witch are really nice in my church group, one is new and is for lack of better words is the nicest girl i have met, the other 2, witch are best friends, are ones that i have known for over 6 years now, i don't talk to any of them much, but i am good friends with their older sisters, but the problem is the new one i don't know if she even likes me, and the others are, well i kinda gave them a cold shoulder over the past 3 years, not because i dis like them, just over the divorce i just didn't have much to give out, let alone try and make a lasting relationship. the 2 like i said are best friends, so i am afraid that if i try to get to know one better, that it will just turn out that the other one likes me, and i have just pushed that one away, making both relationships destroyered.

So what i ask is, how can i figure out which one i should try to know better.

and should i just stay friends with them all.

I really love them all so it is hard for me to say.(all 3 that is, all sweet beautiful women)

A little about me again

i don't like cursing, i consider my self a steampunk, girls quite often call me a gentleman, i am a bit shy and self aware of my speech differences, and i think all people should be in touch with their emotions, and that emotions are not girlish things that should be ignored.

I thank you for your time if you have read all of this.

ps i go be Xan full name, Alexander Xavier, last name is also good but i will Keep it to myself. for safety and all.

and how do i edit my posts, i am new so i have no clue how to use this site.

wait never mind, it just seems that they don't allow you to edit the main post.