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First and foremost, she is my ex. But, we split on good terms and we still talk. I broke up with her a year ago (after dating for three months) because I wasn't ready for a relationship, I felt it wasn't for me at the time... and since then, I haven't really liked anyone else properly, she's the one I seem to.. "revert" back to.
SO. We kind of drifted apart for a bit, she got a boyfriend and I began to withdraw into myself and became a bit of a recluse for the last few months, she split up with her boyfriend, then (this is not linked to the latter) I started talking to her.

I told her I still have feelings for her. That I miss her and old times. She told me she misses me too. We had a nice, honest, quite light hearted, not too heavy conversation about it all. I told her lots of little things remind me of her, and she said the same. I went to visit her and caught up on stuff with her and all the time I just wanted to hold her or something... but I didn't, obviously.

A while back, she was asked a question on her blog if she'd ever take back her ex, and her reply was "if I was single and she still had feelings, then maybe" or something like that. When I went to visit her, we were talking about the default date on my phone, and I asked what the first date that comes to her mind was, her birthday, or the current date, and she said the 12th of November... the day we started dating.

I can't tell if I might have a chance or if she's just interested in being friends. Can someone help? I honestly cannot go a day without something reminding me of her. (If I haven't explained something, or it's unclear just let me know, I'm just kind of rambling, I know ><)

It sounds like maybe she's interested in getting back together with you.
Just take it slow and don't rush anything.

Oh believe me, I'm not wanting to rush anything. I'd hate to lose her because of a silly, thoughtless move.

I'm meeting up with her today, (but with another friend too) I just don't know where to go from here :')

well i think maybe she wants to be with you again. tell her how you feel and ask whether she wants to be just friends or same with old times. but make sure she's really serious bout it.

How would I broach the subject with her? About wanting to know where I stand, what chance we have, things like that? I feel like, yes, we have both acknowledged we miss each other, yes we meet up, but when and how do I bring it up?

sounds like shes interested
take it slow and see where things go from there
good luck!