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I am good friends with a very kind, intelligent guy. I have a growing crush on him. We talk about everything and he loves to hear my problems and make me feel better about them. I've asked him about who he has a crush on (we're in high school), and he wouldn't tell me. He's also asked me who I like, and I wouldn't tell him.
He's dropped very obvious hints, such as touching my hands, my arms, my hair and my face. When I told him about getting rejected by a guy a few years ago, he replied, "I guess he doesn't know what he's missing."
He made it clear that he doesn't want to ask his crush out and would rather she step forward and tell him how she feels.
I don't really know what to think, because every time I think he likes me, he says something that contradicts that. Then, when I get my head around him not liking me, he can't keep his hands off me and acts very sweetly to me.
I would wait it out a little bit, but not long at all. Personally, I think he should ask you out if he likes you that much, but maybe I'm just old fashioned. Give it a week or so, and then go ahead.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
Vertigo -I think he's afraid of rejection, however the fact that he hasn't asked me puzzled me too. I've always thought guys wanted to be "in control" and everything.
Honestly, I'm not sure if he likes me. (I'm not being stupid, I'm just unsure.)
He likes you, thats for sure. And I agree, he's a lot like me- scared of rejection. However, if you make it extremely obvious that you like him, he'll have no choice but to say ask you.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
Hey, don't be scared of rejection. I have asked the same girl out two times even though I knew she would reject. She did so but I knew it was due to her shyness. After that she has asked me out (unfortunately I was busy then... revenge! ).
Hey, don't be scared of rejection. I have asked the same girl out two times even though I knew she would reject. She did so but I knew it was due to her shyness. After that she has asked me out (unfortunately I was busy then... revenge! ).
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