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Old 21-11-11, 06:31 PM   #1
 
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Smallsmileys148 Confused...

So, there's this guy.
He says he likes some one, but refuses to tell me who it is. (I know that should be a dead giveaway that he likes me, but I'm making sure.)
I was hoping I could have some people tell me what you make of this...

These are the "clues" I have gathered from asking him questions:

1) He likes one of his friends, a girl.
2) I personally know the girl he likes.
3) He has two friends that are girls.
4) One of these friends is me.
5) I don't know his other friend.

To my mind, these all add up to him liking me, which I can't seem to get my head around.

So this is my question... What do I do?
Tell him I figured it out? (He said he wanted me to)
Keep it to myself?
Ask him out?

I'd like your opinion. Thank you.
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Old 21-11-11, 06:41 PM   #2
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I don't think you should be so sure it's you, he could think you know the other girl.. Just over confidence isn't good. Id just gently hint to him some that you like him, flirt a little, he'll pick up on it and do it back if he likes you.









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Old 21-11-11, 06:42 PM   #3
 
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There are two girls, you know the girl he likes, and you don't know the other girl. He basically just told you he liked you -- the long way, I suppose.

I say tell him you figured it out and then ask him out
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Old 21-11-11, 06:51 PM   #4
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Also know her could mean know of her.









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Old 21-11-11, 06:55 PM   #5
 
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You can't personally know of someone.
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Old 21-11-11, 07:05 PM   #6
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—used as a function word to indicate a point of reckoning <north of the lake>


Like, I know of my best friend's girlfriend. but I don't personally know her.
It's recognizing of someone.









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Old 21-11-11, 09:22 PM   #7
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i think you it's better you ask him, do you like me? it's easy if you're confident that he likes you
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Old 21-11-11, 10:49 PM   #8
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So this is my question... What do I do?
Tell him I figured it out? (He said he wanted me to)
Keep it to myself?
Ask him out?
Tell him to grow up, and make his statements like a man!
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Tell him to grow up, and make his statements like a man!
YES! I couldn't have said it better myself
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Old 22-11-11, 01:00 PM   #10
 
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Default Re: Confused...

Thanks guys.
I don't know the other girl, and he knows I don't. (She goes to his old school)
I guess he's just really scared of rejection. He told me "It's worse for the guy than the girl" because "the guy has to get up the nerve to ask her, then get rejected, then it's heart break and he has to find another girl."
I was just wondering your opinion. So thank you!




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