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I just met someone and he said he likes me and my friend Jeanette. When he asked both of us out we both kinda had to say "no" because we just met him. Then he told me he was going to kill himself because he wanted a girl friend. I said if he did I would kill myself , so he wont do it .... I would never kill myself. Would you say yes to a person you just met and did NOT like them in that way? :unsure 1:

Amanda I would say no. And I did, he did the same thing and say he will kill himself. I told him just because one girl said no doesn't mean they all would. He still said he would kill himself and I had to find some way to talk him out of it. I kept telling him things like "some girl will like you," or "not all girls will say no," and all this other stuff and eventually he agreed with me and didn't kill himself. So if he ask you out again just tell him things like that.

Lmao, this is ridiculous, sorry. The boy's an idiot, asking 2 girls out at the same time and he barely knows you? Definitely stupid, and he wouldn't kill himself.
And I find it pretty stupid that you told him you'd kill yourself as well. What you should've told him was to man the fuck up and quit being a little bitch

That's kinda crazy on his part. I would say no to him just because he said he would kill himself if he didn't get a girlfriend. That's desperate and shows he has a low self-esteem.

Why would you say you would kill yourself as well?

Dumb.

He's just being a jackass player trying to scare you into being his girlfriend so then he can make you do anything. Say no, get away from him and stop being friends. It's not good, especially for young teen girls to be around guys like this. He'll manipulate you into liking him, maybe dating him etc etc etc. It's just a recipe for disaster and probably emotional/mental abuse. Down the line if you're friends or dating he'll probably be like "You don't care cause you won't do _____ this for me!" or "If you really cared about me you wouldn't be friends with ___" etc. He'll use it against you, because he wants to control you.

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Yeah, he wouldn't kill himself. He's just using it against you.

I really think you ought to just keep your distance. What would have happened if you both said yes? Threesome? He's an idiot.

He knows his way with the ladies:
'Hi, go out with me please?!'
'No.'
'I'm going to go kill myself.'

What a pimp, I'm so gonna use that technique.

I agree with the others, keep your distance.
He's using the whole suicide thing against you.
And asking 2 girls out at the same time? Idiotic.

Michael~