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Sorry If I bore you its long I know but any advice is apreciated....
I have know this guy Chris since I was a tiny baby ( I really have). We have always been friends in year 4 I know we were all young but he started "Going out with" one of my close friends Brianna. They've stayed together on and off all the time up to now. My close group of friends had always been Brianna, Jess(Brianna and Jess are twin's), Maria and me. But last year we started secondry school and I made some new friends the 4 of us were still always together very very close but the others found it hard to accept that I had other friends, things got worse and worse until Brianna was very mean saying it was her or new friends I coouldn't have both it all became to much hassle and quite upsetting so I told them I was going to hang around with my other friend's just for this one day, Brianna broke out crying(she must have forgot I knew she can fake it!) and told our head of year I had said i hated her and didn't want to know here anymore. I now realized how devious she was and how much I didn't like her! From then things have got better I tend to ignore Brianna and Jess because they really hate me I occasianlly hang with Maria but It's a bit awkward if she brings up the twins in conversation. Brianna is still dating chris but Chris always flirts with me ( touches my bum, hugs me, kisses me). I know he flirts alot( with other girls) but it seems different with me? I know this was wrong but one day we made out, no one found out but I have come to really like chris as more than a friend. I wish he would break up with Brianna 'cos he always say that he might but never does. Although I don't like Brianna I don't want her to think I'm breaking her relationship up? What should I do? I really like him?!

This guy, Chris, what's he like?

If he cheated on Brianna, kissing you, and he's a huge flirt, what's to say he wouldn't cheat on you?

Just think about it

Chris seems like a man whore.

The twins are being bitches for no good reason.

Maria seems decent since she hasn't fallen out with you or chose sides.

I hope your new friends are far better. I think you should look for a better boy too.

I agree with Everytime_Love612. If he is flirting with other girls, not just you, what do you think he would do if you two were to start dating? And since you two are keeping this a secret fairly well, if he was to start flirting with other girls, odds are it would be kept a secret and you would be left in the dark.

Also, if Brianna and Chris were to break up, and he starts dating you, she's going to automatically assume it was you that broke them up, no matter what you may tell her. So you might want to be prepared for that.

And he says he always declares he is going to break up with Brianna but doesn't? This is probably because he is having sex with her, and he realizes she doesn't know that he is flirting with many other girls. So in other words, he's getting sex from one girl, flirting with another dozen, and more "intense" flirting with you. He's pretty much man-whoring around.

To move on is to grow, yet we can barely accomplish either on our own. We know the way to go, yet we follow those with their eyes closed.

@Vertigo
Brandon
Marks

If he's willing to cheat on someone with you.

He'll cheat on you with someone.

I agree with everyone above. I'd leave him alone and find a better guy.

I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him.