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Old 25-11-11, 03:45 PM   #1
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Smallsmileys202 Don't know what to do!!!

So me and my BF of 4 years broke up over a month ago and I have been causally seeing this guy. He is nice and seems to have all good intentions, but for some reason I feel guilty, like im still supposed to be with my ex. My ex has also showed interest in wanting to get back together. We were so great together but we broke up because I felt we were moving too fast. Idk if it's just past feelings or if I should go back because I might be really attracted to this new guy but I know he is not the "one".
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Old 25-11-11, 04:09 PM   #2
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Well, after four years, whats too fast? Getting engaged? I think you need to give your ex another chance.








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Yea the whole marriage thing, I mean we have been dating a long time but I'm still only 20. So idk it freaked me out. And now I feel guilty for seeing this other guy
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And I work with him, so how should I end it?
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And I work with him, so how should I end it?
Whoah, whoah, whoah, don't take my word for it. I mean, I'm only 15. Just weigh all the options.

But if you want to end it, just nicely say you still have feelings for your ex. end of story.








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Default Re: Don't know what to do!!!

its normal after 4 years of doing anything be it the same job/going to the same school/using the same games console and of course seeing the same person for any sort of change to be scary and for you to want to return to your comfort zone....just give it some time maybe before you rush into someone elses arms
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