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So like yeah, I've been liking this girl for a couple months now. We have talked a lot more towards the end of school and gotten to known each other better. Recently after asking her to hang out. She told me through text before we went out that she didn't want to go out with anyone and she is really happy to hang out and be friends and all.
We still hung out and stuff, but I am just so confused right now. She probably knows I like her and well.. at one point I thought she may have liked me too. What should I do? I mean she hasn't dated anyone before and well she still came down to hang out with me alone and all... Is she scared of hurting my feeling or something? Does she legitimately not want to date anyone? Is she just scared of dating me since I'm a bit of a rebel and most people see her as the opposite of my personality since she is always studying and she looks really sweet apparently...

I well if she is saying she doesnt want to go out with anyone she is probably just hanging out as friends but if you like her it's probably better to establish that now so you don't become really good friends and just that then try to make it romantic and she rejects it

:X I already told her that I wasn't really interesting in dating though which was my true intention, but I really wanted to get to know her better since we were kind of an undefined relationship before where we weren't really friends or anything but we just talk now and then... but the more I think about it I don't think I want to be just friends with her

i think she's probably likes you but she's scared to show it. i don't think she's scared to date you since you're rebellious cause if she is, she might don't even hang out with you. i guess she's a little bit confused with the situation

Have you considered that maybe she wants to concentrate on her studies, and that she really doesn't want to date anyone at this period?

But if you are certain that she likes you (as a friend at least), and if you are clever enough, you can make her change her mind, but it would take a lot of time and effort, and I wouldn't recommend it really, because you apparently will be humiliated, a lot.

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

Hey guys, sorry for reivivng this but like things have progressed a bit as we have been out a few times together. I still happen to really like her and all and well I really do want to date her. Valentine's is coming up and I'm really not sure what to do right now. Like I've been asked a question relating to her by one of her friends about her which I have talked to once throughout school. Also have had another of her friends talking to one of my really good friend about us(my friend told me that she thinks that the girl likes me too). And another one of her friends telling my friend that I like her. I've also texted her a few times asking her what she's been doing. Well yeah, I really have no idea why is she coming out with me if she doesn't want to date anyone, like is she too nice to say no or something. I'm really happy with not pushing her into a relationship or anything because I'm happy to be able to hang out with her every now and then.... but then I happen to still really like her and I have no idea what to do... any suggestions?