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Yeah, title says it - does it?

I mean, I (personally) am in between a couple of girls, and really, there are some who are really nice but we aren't on the same * intellectual* level.

The first relationship sets up trends for how u react and participate in future relationships, I say most certainly

the first one and in general the first relationships are for experience mostly... i dont think they matter much , as long as you live you learn new things

Depends on your personality and whether you let it matter.

I'd say so yes.
Just because it's the first relationship doesn't mean it doesn't matter.

first relationship will be a good experience for you to learn how to love people etc..

and who's to say what does or doesn't matter? If it doesn't matter, then why participate?

A lot of things that don't matter people participate in. Do you not play any games? They don't matter.

It's all subjective

I wouldn't suggest using a person, especially in a relationship where you're supposed to care about them. That's low on a moral level

Cue smartass philosipher: "what is immoral?" Blachblahblah not everything is as intellectual as u want it to be