Teen Forums - Teen Chat, Teen Help, Teen Advice & Support


If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.



Relationships, Dating, and Crushes Seek dating or relationship advice, chat about your crushes, and more within this forum.

Reply
Old 28-11-11, 10:57 AM   #1
 
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Join Date: Nov 2011
Posts: 1
miller94 is on a distinguished road
Icon20 where do i go from here?

so im completely smitten with this lad. Hes completely perfect in my eyes ( i know that seems ridiculus and such a cliche but tome, he is!).
so let me start from the begining. This probably started about 4/5 years ago, it was a saturday and id just been to the watch the footie. after the game i went into the pub with my dad and his mates, were i seen him. He was playing the fruti machine in the corner of the room. He was tall, dark haired, brown eyes wearing jeans and an oversized black leather bomber jacket
. unfortunately i had to go before i had the chance to talk to him, however from that day the feelings i have for him have only intesified when ive seen him. ( i should probably mention that he is my dad's best mates stepson and that he is about 4 years older than me hes 20 im nearly 17).
About a year or so ago i seen him when i whent to watch the world cup match at the pub. This time, i couldn't take my eyes off of him. i whent to play pool with my brother and when it seemed everytime i glanced up he was looking over towards me ( theres is nothing else near the pool table except a blank wall). When i got back to the table, we ended up having debate about something contrevertial but i felt like we sort of connected ( i am aware i sound like a complete prat but its how i felt), later on he also brought me a drink and came and sat by me.
so the most recent meeting was about 4 months ago, it was at his step uncles wedding, and wow did he look good! ever since seeing him that night i cannot shake him out of my head. except this time, it felt like my whole world was about to come crashing down when his mum told me what he was doing. About a 2 months ago, he left for his army training and its like something missing.
i geniunely have never felt something like this before, its like theres something not quite right with me i feel sad knowing hes not here!
i have had people asking me out, but i have to say no because the feelings i have for him are so strong that in my eyes there is nobody else, but i know me and him will never be as im too scared to telll him how i feel as i dont cope well with rejection.
so has anyone got any advice or suggestions as to what i should do, i cant carry on like this.. its too painful for me :/
miller94 is offline   Reply With Quote
Advertisement
Old 28-11-11, 11:45 AM   #2
BrainDamage
My Mood:  Brooding
 
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Here, maybe there
Posts: 3,363
MontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to beholdMontrealRepresent is a splendid one to behold
Default Re: where do i go from here?

Seems like a decent guy from what I can tell. You say you can't cope with rejection; but you'd never know if you never ask him, eh?
Doubt you'd want to think "What if" for the rest of your life.
Write a letter to him telling him how you feel, or wait until he comes back home; but you definitely should let him know one way or another.
MontrealRepresent is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 28-11-11, 01:53 PM   #3
My Mood:  Aggressive
 
Name: Jenn
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Join Date: Nov 2011
Location: Western New York
Posts: 16
YamiGirl is on a distinguished road
Default Re: where do i go from here?

I agree. definitely tell him. I am too scared to tell someone who I feel, and I've been friends with him for two years. So have the courage to do what I can't!!
YamiGirl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 29-11-11, 08:28 AM   #4
Equality Égalité Igualdad
 
Walt's Avatar
My Mood:  Bored
 
Name: Walter
Age: 20
Gender: Male
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Bay Shore, New York
Posts: 2,052
Walt is a glorious beacon of lightWalt is a glorious beacon of lightWalt is a glorious beacon of lightWalt is a glorious beacon of lightWalt is a glorious beacon of light
Default Re: where do i go from here?

You should tell him, you never know unless you ask...
Walt is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 29-11-11, 08:32 AM   #5
An Undercover Panda
 
Neverland's Avatar
My Mood:  Bookworm
 
Name: Lauren
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 8,382
Neverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond reputeNeverland has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: where do i go from here?

Tell him. You won't regret that as much as if you didn't tell him. At least you'll get it out there by saying so.









Kirk <3
Neverland is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
love advice

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:20 AM. Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.








     Friends: Friends Circle
TeenForumz will never have pop-up or annoying ads. Thanks for NOT supporting us!