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The "her" is my best friends step-sister and I didn't really notice her till after she moved to our town and started going to our school. Then that's when i really started noticing her. I think she likes me just by some signs she's given me. I feel like i can never date her because of my friend he calls her "bitchy" and "a brat" but i think of her as much more then that. I guess what i'm trying to say here is WHAT SHOULD I DO??????

You're only 13 and it's just a new crush. Id try and ignore it, you're young friends matter more now.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

I see what you mean,but It's more then just a new crush. I get a deep feeling about her every time i think about her. I always think about her when a love song comes up. I don't think its a normal thing crush thing. I have NEVER LOVED/LIKED a girl more then her. Ive never dated anyone never actually like anyone. This is deep.

Honey, I hate to break it to you, but it is normal hah.. When your young and feelings start forming and etc everything feels soooo new and sooo serious but it's really not. The feelings will be strong but not for forever, you're only 13. and never dated. You should probably stick with your best friend if she doesn't like the idea of you being with her step sister, talk to her. But just remember, everything is going to feel new and serious and real at your age. It does for everyone.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

You're 13 man, you'll have a lot of chances, and even more future crushes, most of which you won't be able to have because of other reasons, social or otherwise. Use this as a learning experience so that when you're older, you know when a relationship will be obtainable.

Yeah this may feel really serious and deep now, but later on you'll realise it isn't. You should ignore it for a while and see what happens. Is she near the same age as you?

And if people are saying she's bratty/bitchy and they know her better than you, she may turn out that way. Just give it time and see what happens, go with the flow.

Don't know man, I got into a relationship when I was like 11 and it lasted almost 2 years. So you're not exactly TOO young. But I'm a pretty rare case I think.
But still, enjoy your time with your friends for now. Have some fun, go fuck shit up. Once you're a few years older, if you're still crushing on her; go for it.

well, i've got no idea how you had a crush on your step sister.. but i think you better get to know her first.

I've got no idea how you completely missed out the "my best friends" bit.

it's "my best friends stepsister" ? sorry i can't really understand the words.. is it my best friends' stepsister or my best friend who is my step sister ? confused..