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Old 30-11-11, 04:03 PM   #1
 
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OK! So I've been dating this girl for over a year now til we broke up three weeks ago... After the breakup she wanted too be " Friends with Romantic Interest " I asked her what the hell is that ?.. I asked a few friends of mines they said its FWB. So now in my mind I'm confused. Let me go back a few to what was said during the breakup -_-! She said to me that I was too nice, and she felt I needed to be with someone more family Oriented, and be there for me when I need them and that I was too romantic. Note: I thought and wonder to myself if she was even listening to any of the words she was spitting out because for one she has strong family values and she always been there for me..Any who, A few days later after she suggested the whole Friends with Interest she wanted to be just friends I Said " OK " . So we are at work one day and for a whole week we haven't talked to each other in awhile. Now we normally talk on Facebook, but I don't normally get on there alot or I'm to busy. So one day i got on and she deleted me off Facebook!! o_O..I've notice at times at work she has been around me alot, but hasn't spoken to me at all.So when I confronted her about the whole FB issue she got all defensive about it saying we since we don't talk to each other in person or on Facebook we might as well not be friends and that when we see each other at work we ignore each other... SO now I'm in a WOW state of mind..I said to her " there's been plenty of times we haven't spoken to each other and you didn't have a problem with it before til now!" So i just said to hell with it whatever!........ So two weeks later we been avoiding each other and completely not seeing or talking to each other what so ever. Last week, she came around and started being nosy and began checking on me in a avoiding matter. This has been going on for a weeks now!



My question to you guys and girls is what is her case what is it she wants....? I'm I missing something? She said I was her real first relationship....could that be the problem? What do you think ?


what kills me is she got this mean cold look about her, but she seems she wants to talk to me but keeps playing this game. I would talk to her, but she stated that she suggest we ignore each other from now on. So its like how the heck do I go about speaking to her ..?

Please help I'm confused about this girl !



What are your views on this girl and how should I handle this ?
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Old 01-12-11, 08:36 PM   #2
 
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Come on! Anyone on this forum got anything wise to share that may help me out in this Crisis of a mess please >.<!
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Old 02-12-11, 12:48 PM   #3
 
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Forget her, she's acting like a dick.




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Old 09-12-11, 04:32 PM   #4
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Ok so obviously this girl isn't the one for you. If she is always that mean than she is not worth your time. Maybe you can try ignoring her and pretending she is not there. And then see if she comes back. If she doesn't well then you'll find someone better than her.
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Default Re: Just so confused and lost right now -_-!
Sorry i haven't replied I was away the past few days! :(

Anyways she sounds like a really crappy girl now. Id just stop it all together, her asking for fwb after breaking up with you is a bitch move! shes just playing you so just forget her sorry about the short reply im not in the best of moods right now.









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Old 04-01-12, 01:12 PM   #6
 
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Thats ok thank you for the reply anyways
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I agree w/the above... SHe obviously isn't worth it








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She sounds like she's immature and doesn't know what she wants. How old is she?
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She sounds like she's immature and doesn't know what she wants. How old is she?
Exactly this

She thought you were too good for her and then didn't realise how much she wanted to be with you until she broke up with you

For clarification FWB is purely sexual, if she wants 'friends with romantic interest' it means she wants to date and to see if you guys end up getting back together

If you want to be with her, then fight for it

If you don't, keep your distance
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