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My boyfriend smokes weed almost every other day, and what frustrates me is that he's so dumb after that; he says the most stupidest thing and giggle to himself. Then he plays HON (something like league of legend) probably 3-4 games in a row. Each game is an hour - and I'm forced to watch him because there's nothing to do at his parent's house. No tv, or extra computers - we've been together for nearly a year, and everytime I come over it's like this. I come over twice once a week, and it doesn't even look like his grandparents like me - we never talk to eachother.

I whine alot, and I've noticed that because I'm not getting the attention I need - Come on, he plays games all the time even when I'm at home calling or texting him. This is so annoying, and I just wanna break up with him. But I can't, he treats me very good - I'm very spoiled by him =) He does everything I ask him to, and gives me whatever I need aside from not playing games, and smoking weed. We always get into fights because he's either ignoring me or smoking weed and acting up around his friends. Sigh. Any advice?

AND whenever I'm over, I sleep alone and he sleeps very late. He wakes up late, and I wake up early. =(

If you think he treats you "so well" which it doesn't sound like he does, then in your mind he should deserve better then you, so break up. It's what you want, and it's fair to him whether he treats you well or not, who the hell wants to stay in a one sided relationship?

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Everything in your posts contradicts itself.

He either treats you well, in which case; stop bitching, or he treats you like shit, in which case grow some tatas and toss him to the curb so you can stop bitching.

If you're with him only once or twice a week and he doesn't even pay attention to you in these moments, I would just break up. He doesn't deserve your attention.

The best thing you can probably do in this situation is to leave him. It doesn't sound like he really cares about you.

Break up. He doesn't care about you or your feelings.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Maybe stop visiting him? Idk, he has a couple of things to realize, which I'm sure he will if he really wants to be with you.

Suddenly my eyes are open
Everything comes into focus, oh!
We are all illuminated,
Lights are shining on our faces
We are, we are blinded !
We are, we are blinded !

Mmm... from what she said, he is too high on weed and videogames to realise she's there. It's sad to say,, but i'm not sure he will realized it. Maybe he will after all.

Well, I hope for him he's not abusing it to the point of forgetting everyone around him. He has to learn it the hard way or else, there's no other way out of it besides the breakup :/

Suddenly my eyes are open
Everything comes into focus, oh!
We are all illuminated,
Lights are shining on our faces
We are, we are blinded !
We are, we are blinded !

Also, if your to the point where you can call your lover a cuss word like ass.. your relationship isn't healthy nor real so id just end it..

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3