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Old 05-12-11, 08:02 AM   #1
 
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Well, I like this girl, and she...is a bit out of my league.

To make things worse, I'm shy as hell.

Any tips to overcome my shyness? I mean, we're classmates, but I can barely even talk with her.

I don't have her phone number, just FB, and that's it. I was thinking of chatting some more time, then asking her for a phone number and later for a date. Or should I ask her for the number when asking her out?
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If you can barely talk to her how do you know you like her?
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If you can barely talk to her how do you know you like her?
well...it's a crush I suppose, I mean I really like her. I know how she is, I mean we are in the same class for more than a year already, so its impossible to not know something ...




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I'll let you in on a secret, girls like confidence in a man, and above all some familiarity. Don't just ask her out randomly. Get to know her a bit more, and then once you're sure she really is the person she ppears to be, AND you've talked or chatted for a bit, then ask her out. Mind you, make sure you listen to everything she says. Sometimes she won't be looking for a relationship, or something like that.
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Yeah, I know that, but somehow I'm a bit too shy to even have these small conversations. That's why I'm asking for some tips on being less shy.




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Well for starters its a hell of a lot easier if your not talking to someone that you have a crush on. So in general don't start falling for people just because of their looks. It just makes this much more complicated. As you can tell already.

Your already really jumping the gun tho, you want to ask her out on a date without even really talking to her? Really dude you gotta stop thinking about the possibilities and doing more productive stuff. Such as talking to more people in general with no intention of anything other than to talk and maybe get to know em. THEN you move onto if you like someone you are talking to.









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hallace, I mean asking her out after I get to know her, but FFS, we're classmates for more than a year....




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Confidence boosting tips- from the master
Really, this will apply to all areas of your life. Confidence helps you with friends and jobs in your future too.
1. Smile- You feel happy, you smile. You smile, and well, it works the same way. You will feel happy. With happiness comes confidence.
2. Fake it till you make it- Yeah that might not sound like the best tip but trust me, it works.
3. 99 percent of it is your view on yourself- People always talk about self esteem when talking about confidence. If you feel good about yourself, you will be confident. So how do you do that? When other people compliment you, you feel good. So try and do the same to yourself. If you are in an uncomfortable situation, remember why you are awesome and that should boost your confidence.
4. Don't care what others think of you. Just do whatever the fuck you want and ignore others opinions on you. People will gradually respect you for that and you will be confident and strong.
Well, do these tips and gradually you will build up confidence. Then you may be ready to...
Talk to that girl :O Good luck haha
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If her legs are open while she's sitting, she's interested, if they're closed, then, no. That's the only tip I can really give. But watch for it later when you're flirting.
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Go for it talk to her you will soon know wether you really like her and if she really likes you but if you never try you will never know. Think whats the worst thing you can expect she rejects you feel embarrased for what 2mins max and you move on. thats not really that bad is it? try not to overthink things if you do think postively haha.




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