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Soo, I have known this girl ever since the first year of highschool, she was the first person to ever talk to me, and my first friend. I've known her for two years, and we've never actually hung out. So we finally hang out, and I end up kissing her, and us becoming Bf and gf. We go to her house and we spend hours talking. Next time: We go to her house and we spend hours talking and kissing. : Next time: we go to her house and we kiss allot. This girl is really innocent, and Im only the second person she has ever kissed. Anyways, so the next day, she doesn't really talk to me. I mean normally she is a very quiet girl, but now she really is. Another thing; Whenever I call her beautifull,or pretty, she just nods her head.. Not even a smile. and I'm being totally sincere. It's just that it's hard to be the way I used to be ( her friend ) now that I recognize her beauty, and all I want to do is be with her. I just lose my mind, and well can't think of anything to say..
I think you just have to have a deep conversation about it with her. Tell her you legit mean it and she IS beautiful in your eyes no matter what, even if she doesn't see herself as pretty you see her as pretty. she's probably just got really low self esteem, and it doesn't hurt while talking to ask her to show a little reaction whether it be good or bad so it's not confusing for you. over time she will open up more, it's still fairly new so try hard not to overly be so omgiminlovewithyou like.
Hope that helped some.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
+ add this as a twist if the talk goes well or dunno if you can do it b4 the talk, I think @DeepDistress should vote on this one O_O
My opinion is, if you can play the guitar or an instrument, learn " You Can Count On Me by Burno Mars " and sing it to her ( even if you have a crappy voice, she will appreciate it ) I think maybe she is afraid that what happened with the first guy will happen with this relationship as well.
^ Not a bad idea just be careful not to do too much of a serious song.
Perhaps some song that you guys liked as friends and means a lot to you two?
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Just invite her on a really cute fun date. Go bowling or something fun
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Get her recognize her own beauty, don’t just tell her she’s beautiful she’s probably heard this before countless times. Think about it anyone could call some one beautiful, but does it mean that they mean it? What makes the person beautiful exactly? Next time you call her beautiful tell her what’s beautiful about herself, compliment her eyes, hair, facial structure, hands, lips anything you can pick point and go into detail about.
Don’t let her beauty intimidate you either because sooner or later she’ll notice the intimidation she’s causing and that will be yet another problem for you to deal with. Remember that beauty is physical and there’s far more beyond the exterior. The interior plays a key role in romanticism, she probably values your inner and outer beauty as much as you value hers; for all you know the same nerves are running through her mind when she sees you.
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