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I am a junior in H.S, I have been single all throughout highschool, I have had oppurtunities to date poeple, but I knew I was too immature to be in a relationship. I met a girl who has so much in common with me, and she is now m girlfriend for 3 days. But I dont feel like she is someone I want to be with, Half the time I dont even feel like talking to her. I feel awful because I should not have asked her to be my gf in the first place, I think I was just caught up in the moment. Should I give it more time? Or stop it now so I dont lead her on anymore?
I would feel awful to end it, but that is what feels right. Maybe I am just getting last minute panic because it has been a long time.
I would say don't waist her time and yours. If you do break with her it will be hard and you should be ready for what people are going to be talking about it school. But you can try to see how she is and get to know her better to make sure you make the right decision.
End it, but gently and be sure to tell her that you are still going to be friends the same way as before you were in a relationship. I dunno what else really, there is no easy way out of this, so just tell her. It's better than leading her on and she finds out eventually then she says " YOU'VE BEEN DECEIVING ME ALL THIS TIME " <-- you don't want that.
Don't end it! It was kinda like this with me too. The first few days were awlward, but then we started messaging each other and talking on the phone getting to know each other and it went pretty well.
" This is how the days ruled among us; one folk's disaster, is another's benefit. " --- Al-Mutanabbi
Note: - At this period, I only have internet access on my phone, and IM doesn't work on my phone, so when any of you guys send me a message, I can see that I recieved messages on TF IM but I can't read or respond to them.
hmmm... I'm gonna go with Syrian on this one. Even if it was awkward, you would still want to talk to them because a relationship is so new and, in theory, the feelings are still strong.
I think end it. Its better then you leading her on.
“It always seems impossible until it’s done.”- Nelson Mandela
You'd just be leading her on if you didn't end it when you have no real feelings for her. I think it's good that you're realising you're too immature for a relationship. Yeah, let her down gently and hopefully she hasn't got too attached in the last 3 days. If you don't feel like talking to her then I'd say that isn't good for a healthy relationship.
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