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So there's this girl in my off period (I'm supposed to be off campus since I'm a senior but I have to stay after school for a club and I happen to know my Chemistry teacher so I stay in his class). So this girl is a sophomore in my teachers class when I go there. So we made light talk here and there bout stuff but I just think this is a interesting girl and I just want to know more about her and that. But I just never worked up the courage to just ask for her number or just try to do something more. So today I brought in two packages of canned coke for a club party(In the class room while the girl was in the class) that I was having after midterms. Obviously bringing in two packs of coke set off a couple people and the girl also, but I turned them down saying it was for a party. So while they took there midterms I was thinking of maybe giving the girl a coke to maybe show a little interest in her, not only that my original intent was that I saw on her Facebook that she really like coke and so I thought she might like one.
So as they left the class I tried to motion her over to where I was sitting but she never did, (I was trying to avoid fussing by the other students instead of just yelling out her name and stuff like that~)
After the day ended and I went home I got onto Facebook and said that the party was great and everyone loved the coke that I brought. And she goes on my status saying that it's messed up that I didn't give her one. And I said about how I was trying to wave her down but I didn't want to start a fuss over the other students. And so she said that was okay and I commented back saying that I would make it up to her and bring her a coke after the winter break, and she said that would be great and she was going to keep the can (For a keepsake or just because she likes coke so much XD I really don't know why she wants to keep it). So that's what I'm going to do~
But then I got a better Idea that I would put my phone number or some message saying sorry about not giving her a coke before break, something like that to tell her that I would like to know more about her. (I was thinking of folding it and putting it on the bottom of the can so maybe she would find it and not make it look obvious.
So should I really do this (I will still give her the coke) but just having the note as a passive way of telling her that I'm interested in her. Any other advise for me would be nice. Thanks
Really good idea of the note with the can,
I suggest you either write it in a paper of a put it in an envelope and attach it to the can with a decoration string or smthn or you can just write it down with a marker on the can that way the can is more special to keep.
Really good idea even though she seems really immature and annoying and selfish..
it amazes me how teens now a days don't have any decency, like when you go to someone's house, (not meaning a close friend) and they ask for a drink or something to eat...like wtf ever happen with manners and respect and waiting till offered it?!
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Really good idea even though she seems really immature and annoying and selfish..
it amazes me how teens now a days don't have any decency, like when you go to someone's house, (not meaning a close friend) and they ask for a drink or something to eat...like wtf ever happen with manners and respect and waiting till offered it?!
It's stupid she got so pissed at you not giving her one, when they just rudely asked for one. For all they know you were demanded and required to have exactly that many.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
It's stupid she got so pissed at you not giving her one, when they just rudely asked for one. For all they know you were demanded and required to have exactly that many.
Lol, I forgive them anyways. I really didn't take offense to it, heck I would be asking for one if I was sitting in that chair trying to wake up and do a Midterm XD.
Sorry for a long wait to be updated, Alright so I gave her the coke with a note (I was going to go up to her and ask her but I had to go to the Community College to do some stuff) before she went to class. Well that same day on facebook she PM'd me saying that she would like to go but she would have to ask her parents. Now she asked them and they said yes but they have to meet me. So now I'm waiting to for a date and time so I can meet them. Any tips? Comments? I'm sure this is great news for most of y'all XD