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Sorry to but the one way you can kinda get out of is to date her but you don't wanna do that sooo...good luck

If she's known you for a year, she could have developed strong feelings for you. Yes, you could break her heart. The only thing I can think of to get you out of this mess is to be honest with her. Leading her on will only make things worse.

be honest dude, it's the only way you can do it, but dont be blunt and say " i dont like you, i like someone else" be as kind as possible but maintain the truth "sorry but i dont like you, sorry if i hurt your feelings, it wasnt intentional, there someone else that i like, sorry"

Well.. you fucked up big time.. but it's better to be honest than to go out with someone while you have feelings for someone else.

Just explain it to her, but don't be too blunt..
You can at least be sensitive while breaking her heart.
Joking, but seriously, don't be too harsh.
Good luck.

I feel you mate, and I know what you are talking about. I've been there, and I've known people who are like your friend, your mistake was that you made out with her, it probably was like a green light to her that you like her, or like you want to be with her.

I'm not for telling her that you don't want to be with her, just like that, because she sounds pretty sensitive, so just instill it in her mind gradually. Probably, you are nice and mostly can't refuse her requests, I just think you should stop being easy with her, and gradually start being firmer towards her requests/desires, and try to make her feel that she is less closer than she thinks she is until she gets over you without breaking her heart or breaking your friendship with her.

Frankly, if she brings it up, and be like you made out with me, why are you keeping yourself off me , and why would you not want to be with me? You have no other option but to be completely honest with her by then mate.

It's really the time for humanity to take a dump.

There is no easy or pleasent way to solve this, if you don't wanna be with her you should have explained this to her long ago, not made out with her for 15 minutes, I mean what is she supposed to think based on that.

The only thing you can do to make this better is to be honest with her in a nice way,she'll be less hurt that way, stringing her along will just fuck things up even more.

I think you should just explain. Tell her that you're not interested in a relationship and that making out with her was on the spur of the moment. I know this isn't going to be that easy but leading her on is worse. Just get it over with and carry on with life. If she stops talking to you then you probably should just part ways anyway.

Thanks a lot guys, even the ones who told me like it is haha. Didn't realize what I did was so bad but yeah she's a bit pushy and I don't really say no to people... Oh well I suppose I'll see what happens.