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Okay so i started to chatting to this girl a while back, march time maybe? we spoke till about July and then didn't speak much since, recently (past 3-4 days) we've been talking a bit over text, just general chit chat, i just wondered what i could say in the chitchat to make it a bit more personal, like we're talking about hobbies and stuff, light flirting (if you can call it that over text) and i just wanted to make the conversations a bit more personal. I've always been a very closed guy myself, so i don't talk about me personally much, but i just want to know what could be said to make it a bit more personal as i think im starting to like this girl >.<

There is a video on YouTube by the channe DanandJenn just search how to get out of the friend zone Danandjenn you should find it
I think that's what your looking for....

Hey mate,

My best advice? Start being more flirty then you are currently. I'm talking compliments, more hugging, etc. Play more of a crush vs friend role, and see how she responds. If she doesn't or seems uncomfortable, back off.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

I agree with Jared. Talk to her more, be more flirty, compliment her, talk more about personal stuff, ask her about her opinions on things and share your own.

If you want to get more personal with her then work around topics that will allow her to tell you more about herself in dept. Subjects like Family, Her Background, Her Past Struggles, Her Past Relationships etc.

If you phone her frequently you could always suggest a 20 Questions Game that ought to save you the awkwardness of trying to bring up a random topic. Have the questions in mind, don’t forget to provide feedback, don’t just say “Oh I see” that’s not proper feedback; tell her how you feel on what she’s just shared with you. While in the process share some more personal things about you that are in correlation to what you’ve just asked her. When she responds to any of your questions and something is unclear, hang on to it. Ask her to further explain, the conversation should flow naturally if you follow a structure.

A lot of their videos are very good. You should check out a few of them.

Me personally, I'd say try say more flirty stuff and see how she responds.

Be flirty, and make it clear that you have intentions of being more than friends without walking up to her and saying

"I wanna be yo man, gurrrrrl"

Don't go up and just flat out tell her you're interested. Chances are if you do that to early - you'll crash your chances.

Just show more interest, be flirtatious, and get to know her more in depth. I liked that 20 Questions game suggestion - it helps get things going.

"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness, but of power. They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues. They are messengers of overwhelming grief...and unspeakable love."
- Washington Irving