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ive been with my girlfriend for a month. today a mutual friend told me that he herd her say that im not the guy that she has fallen hardest for.. it was a guy about a year ago. What does this mean? should i end it even though i still want to be with her?
Hello my friend.
Why would you end it just because someone told you about it? Don't put your relationship at risk just because of something you're not even sure about. People tell a lot of bullshit to pull people down and destroy other's happiness. It could be true, but does it matter that much afterall? If she loves you now, don't throw it away. But if it really bothers you that much, tell her about it calmly. In my opinion though, it's not a very essential detail. *shrugs* If you're happy together, that's what matters, no?
Oh? Well. Why did you promise him not to talk about it anyway? :p
You can't hold that grudge hidden for long or that will completely ruin the relationship.
Try to talk to your friend about it then and tell him/her you have to, for the sake of your relationship withyour girlfriend. If she's/he's really your friend, he should understand and respect that.