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Hey, so a few weeks ago I posted on here asking for some advice about asking this girl out. The original post is prolly still floating around, but In a nutshell, the two of us met and hit it off pretty quickly, however I was hesitant to ask her out because even though it was a perfect moment, she lives pretty far away from me and is going abroad next semester to Italy. Well when the time came, there were really good vibes between us the entire night, so I decided to go for it. I asked her out, and she immediately said yes. She brought up the issue of her going abroad afterwards and I said it didn't bother me. The following week we pretty much texted each other every day and it was really great. We went out, and it was a nice night; we saw a movie and then went to get coffee. It was a nice night over all, We joked and flirted and we even kissed goodnight. It was a great chance to talk and get to know each other a bit better.

However, since then things have been....different. The signals aren't as distinct as they were before. We still text each other but it doesn't feel like it did before. After the date, she got really involved in her finals and was getting ready to move back home, which was a factor. Idk, I just don't have as clear a picture as I did before and its unnerving. My friends are telling me it is because she might not want to jump into anything before she goes to Italy, especially after only such a short time. Which, if that were the case, I could accept that. The only thing is I don't know either which way and she isn't really sending signals to guide me. I mean, I don't feel like she is pushing me away....but she's not pulling me any closer. I just wish I knew how she felt about the whole thing. I don't really want to have to ask her because I don't want to push her too hard, I already feel like I might be pushing things already. I'll admit it's been roughly 2 years since I have dated anyone, so I could just use some help because I'm kinda unsure of what I'm doing lol

I think you might be reading too much into it.

No one feels the same about something, all the time.

Try talk to her more, engage in some more flirty types of conversation and see if you get that feeling back.

If she's pre-occupied sometimes you just have to accept it's not working or they're just busy.

All you can do is keep trying and keep your chin up