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Old 23-12-11, 02:50 PM   #1
 
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Hey,

So I've been talking to a girl quite a lot recently, like 5 hours a day for the last week, and I'm pretty sure from various things she's said that she's into me, and I'm into her. However there is a little bit of a problem, which is that her ex-ex-bf was one of my closest friends, but now isn't a very close friend, and her ex-bf is one of my closest friends.... aaaand also her best friend is my ex-gf.

So I wanna know some peoples opinions, is she out of bounds?
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Old 23-12-11, 02:54 PM   #2
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Lol, you're going to prevent yourself from happiness because of some unwritten rule book written by a bunch of drunk frats on spring break? Pathetic.

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Old 23-12-11, 02:55 PM   #3
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Lmao, pretty funny web you have there.
All you have to do is talk to your friends and tell them you're interested in going out with her. Ask them if they're alright with it. If her ex-bf, one of your closest friends, isn't alright with then I wouldn't go with it. Stay friends with her sure, but don't go any further. I'd say it isn't worth risking a good friendship. Doesn't really matter what her ex-ex-bf, your not very close friend, thinks.
This is what I'd do. You don't have to though, obviously; just do what you think is best.


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Lol, you're going to prevent yourself from happiness because of some unwritten rule book written by a bunch of drunk frats on spring break? Pathetic.

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Old 23-12-11, 02:58 PM   #5
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You don't need a rule book to tell you how to act amongst your friends. If you don't know how to be an individual then you're aworthless individual that gives minimal contribution to the world.








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Old 23-12-11, 02:59 PM   #6
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Go out with her if you want.

They're ex's. They're not in a relationship with you/her so why should they let it bother them? Okay so I understand the jealousy and shit but it's completely unfair for them to fall out with you over it when their relationships are over. If they're really your friends then they'll get past it and be happy for you...imo.









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Old 23-12-11, 03:02 PM   #8
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Well, my rule book that I use is my own spin on the Brocode. If you've been out of a relationship with that person for more then a month, they're fair game. However, do what makes you happy.








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