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MissBlood · 25-12-11, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by RysRyan

I remember a stage when I would only talk to girls on facebook....it was just nothing much when we would see each other irl....that hurts my confidence, knowing that I can only charm others cyberly, and I hate myself because of it. I once went to a camp in another state, and I had the moves that I had on fb for some reason.....but I went back to awkward in Illinois

It can be harder in real life, that's true.

But a lot of the stuff IRL has more to do with them than it does you.

They might be shy or awkward themselves or not had a lot of experience.

You just have to keep trying

exotic princess · 26-12-11, 12:14 PM

I acknowledge the fact that you are all in a way right. I've known almost everything you've given as advice, it's just it's hard not to ask when you yourself start to feel a bit doubtful about your own assumptions. The reason that i included a description of my race was to see if maybe there was something about it that could be a contributing factor as to why i never seem to attract a "good guy".

Thank you all for your advice i greatly appreciate it!!

Mounette · 26-12-11, 01:27 PM

@exotic_princess ; The right guy isn't gonna look at your race because that, for sure, doesn't define who you are but I do feel what your feeling because I am also black but I try not to get that negative thought. Its about how you carry yourself also and your body language, those kind of things attract guys.