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Basically this is a help if you can sort of forum.
I'm a British islander and i'm black, my grandmother was white and so i inherited her long straight hair. I've been single and looking for a guy for some time now and it's becoming increasingly difficult to find the right one for me. I can never seem to find a guy that just wants me because of my personality, rather than my body. what should i do?
He'll come when he's supposed to come, we're not in control and we cannot make things happen. SO just get used to things the way they are and let it happen on its own.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
The world is full of guys like that and the answer is that you should do nothing. Don't go looking because you'll only frustrate yourself and get involved with men who aren't what you're looking for.
You're still young and honestly there aren't many "men", or should I say boys, close your age who will see women that way yet. There are few exceptions and they will find you in time. Just continue with life and work on other areas, I hope you're doing well in school! You'll find the right one eventually.
Yes, I agree with the above posters. Focus on your family, friends, school, and hobbies. When you are doing what you love, people are drawn to you. He will come when it is time.
Maybe get some more online male friends too, to help with your confidence in talking to different types of guys
I remember a stage when I would only talk to girls on facebook....it was just nothing much when we would see each other irl....that hurts my confidence, knowing that I can only charm others cyberly, and I hate myself because of it. I once went to a camp in another state, and I had the moves that I had on fb for some reason.....but I went back to awkward in Illinois
What does your race have to do with anything anyway?
I think you think of yourself as a colour too much for starters.
If you're looking to attract a suitor, then don't worry about it. focus on being happy and going on about your life. happy people are naturally more attractive.
Basically what everyone else has been saying. It is hard trying to find teenage guys your age who are gonna look past that stuff, there are some but it's kind of rare so patience is the key. You are still young, you have a whole life ahead of you and need to be concentrating on college, schoolwork, what your gonna do for a living, etc. Leave guys at bay for now because in your adult years, you'll be able to find some one to settle down with. I am in your position but starting to realize those kind of things and it's not something we can make it happen that fast. So just wait and that person will come. Good luck.
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