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heyy all, right started college september n had a completely different outlook compared to high school(it was shit n left with no trusty mates really) become quiet popular n am a bit of a big flirt but everyone knows i do it in a jokey way. anyway in september i met this girl have gotten really close with her, she doesnt seem to be a very social person i only see her talkin to about 3/4 different people but i got a crush on her n asked her out october, she said no cause she just likes me as a friend, since then i have really fallen for her, we are both abit flirty n if we dont see eachother we speak on the phone at least everyday, i have never had a girlfriends, or even kissed a girl properly as i was a right geek in high school (btw is this quiet embarrisin really??) i really dont know how to get her to like me and i always seem to be stuck in the "good friend" category, help please??

Surprise her with something romantic for friends, but normal for bf and gf. Get her a rose or something small. Nothing like a candlelit dinner. Try and make a move on her and see how she reacts

Yeah just be sweet and show her you care, buy her a flower but also get something that she likes, something more personal that shows you thought about what SHE would like.

Like if a guy bought me a rose, sweet, but any girl would like that.

A rose, and feather earrings or something to do with angel wings, very me and shows thought.

hmmmmm. It's almost immpossible to get out of the friends category dude. My best suggesstion honestly is to try to move on and date other girls. I mean like they always say, there are tons of fish in the sea. Dating girls doesnt necessarily mean that you two can't date in a year or two (or less). I mean who knows, maybe she will see you dating other girls and get hella jealous and wanna make a move on you even!!! So that's my suggestion, but if you wanna risk losing her as a friend you can always tell her how you feel (I mean really lay it on the line and give it to her, I know you already asked her out but I mean romantically tell her what she means to you). But just so you understand that this could freak her out and you could lose her friendship. i'm telling you the jealousy thing works dude. When i am single I can't buy a date, when I am in a relationship I have girls giving me their digits #lifesweirdthatway

ok thanks guys! i really appreciate you taking your time to read my problem n for the feedback, im gna try abit of everythin really, ima try n do some sort of romantic gesture thing, n ima try n see how things could go with other girls n see about the jealousy thing, but also doesnt this seem like using someone to get with someone else??

do NOT go after other girls at the same time, make up your mind if you want to keep trying with this girl to see if she changed her mind, or if you want to try with another girl. You said she's become flirty so she may have changed her mind. So you either have to pick her or move on and stop flirting back probably. It wouldn't be fair to you and may really mess up how your thinking and confuse you, and possibly hurt a new girl who likes you.

So make up your mind and try one at a time.