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Old 02-01-12, 08:39 PM   #1
 
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Icon11 Shy and akward anyone?

anyone evr feel like theres extreme akwardness between you and someone else?
I do, alot actually. The girl doesnt even have to be particularly pretty and still freeze up and words just dont come out right anyone have anytips to help me talk to my crush or girls in general?
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Old 02-01-12, 08:44 PM   #2
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Default Re: Shy and akward anyone?

Stare at her forehead. Eye to eye contact is very nice if you have no problem talking to the person. Also, just relax. Notice when your stressed and loosen up, but not in a joke movie kind of way where the character loosens up so much that they fall over.

It happens, don't worry about it. Maybe if you tell a girl that you particularly are crushing on (that you are on fairly good terms with) then she will giggle and thinks cute. Tell her you get tongue tied because she's so pretty








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Old 02-01-12, 11:10 PM   #3
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Relax. And be yourself. Don't worry too much about what you're going to say. Let it come to you naturally. That's the best way to start and sustain a conversation. It'll take a little getting used to for sure though. Start doing it more regularly and it will come easier in time. Relax and be yourself. I'm sure your a wonderful person so let the world see it and don't worry too much.








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Old 03-01-12, 10:38 AM   #4
 
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Thank you for the advice, ill make it a point to talk to her more. Hopefully it'll come eventually. Thx again ppl, i appreciate it.
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Old 03-01-12, 02:40 PM   #5
 
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Just think of her as another person? For girls in general, just think of them as a dude with breasts. Just think of them as another friend.

As for your crush, well, practice makes perfect. You're 16 and I'm assuming still in high school. Just relax, you got plenty of time.









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Old 03-01-12, 03:31 PM   #6
 
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Don't think about it like really.
If it does seem like your being all awkward you can play it off playfully and don't think about it. I always act tired so i fool myself into thinking it was my drowsiness so i don't get intimidated by a girl.

Goodluck and again DONT THINK ABOUT IT talking to a girl is nothing, your just talking to someone else geeee haha









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Old 03-01-12, 03:45 PM   #7
 
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Well thats what i'm going to do, its just that girls can seem so intimidating sometimes...
Anyhow, ill put you guys advice to good use, thx
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